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Old 05-18-2008, 01:37 PM
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Talk to some of the more influential brothers (e.g. executive board) and see if they can get him to stop.

But if you feel the situation is severe enough, does your chapter have some kind of Board of Advisers or Membership Quality Board that you can present this situation to and bring the guy up for expulsion? If it does, and you feel it's right to do, then do that.

If nothing works then disaffiliate. Nothing is worse than being in a chapter where you're not accepted and you strongly dislike one or more brothers.
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Old 05-18-2008, 01:50 PM
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Np.

But let me clarify some things...

I didn't mean to sound like you should just try to have the guy kicked out, or disaffiliate if things don't work out your way.

This guy is your brother so he should be able to see where you're coming from and respect you and your wishes. So I'd also suggest to talk to him again, sternly, and make sure he gets the point. If he STILL doesn't, then try the advice I originally posted.
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Old 05-18-2008, 02:02 PM
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This doesn't sound legit to me.
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Old 05-18-2008, 03:04 PM
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whoop his ass.
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Old 05-18-2008, 03:06 PM
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hold up. is he mocking indians? yea, whoop his ass.
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Old 05-18-2008, 03:09 PM
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This doesn't sound legit to me.

I thought the same thing before I even saw your post.
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Old 05-18-2008, 05:30 PM
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Alright, Juspreet, I have several questions for you after watching that video:

1) Why do you all have English accents? Or does your chapter simply have large numbers of English guys pledging?

2) There's nothing about that video that comes off as malicious or homophobic, and it's been up for a year. Care to explain why you're only now getting upset about it?

3) New Zealand?
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Old 05-18-2008, 05:54 PM
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Alright, Juspreet, I have several questions for you after watching that video:

1) Why do you all have English accents? Or does your chapter simply have large numbers of English guys pledging?

2) There's nothing about that video that comes off as malicious or homophobic, and it's been up for a year. Care to explain why you're only now getting upset about it?

3) New Zealand?
Seems like more middle eastern accents to me.
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Old 05-18-2008, 06:02 PM
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Hm, did not go to far did it?

So, how about it not be blown up into a BS thread?
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Old 05-18-2008, 06:06 PM
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Hm, did not go to far did it?

So, how about it not be blown up into a BS thread?
Then how are we supposed to have fun Tom? If everyone agreed 100% of the time, then this place wouldn't be nearly as exciting.
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Old 05-18-2008, 07:33 PM
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You should demand an all male speed dating night at the chapter house. That'll teach them!
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Old 05-24-2008, 03:08 AM
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Umm... What you say?
Just quit, you obviously aren't cut out for Greek Life so you might as well give it up now before you waste your time on something that you'll later view as a waste.
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Old 05-24-2008, 03:17 AM
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LOL, cosign. Although I'm quite sure we'll be hearing from the brothers at Delta Iota Kappa soon trying to recruit him. It's the same pattern, every time, wait for it...
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Old 05-24-2008, 05:14 AM
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Then how are we supposed to have fun Tom? If everyone agreed 100% of the time, then this place wouldn't be nearly as exciting.
Yeah if we agreed 100% of the time I woulda never gotten box row seats to General Shermans "March to the Sea"! I love this country, the only place where you can disagree and not get imprisoned, and you can wink at a white woman, except in the South! ha ha ha j/k
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Old 05-24-2008, 02:54 PM
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Excuse me if this is rude but what is DIK?
I believe it stands for Desert Island Keeper


Thanks for your concern!
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