Legacy moms at inititation

[beebadger]

Hi. Does anyone know if chapters ever still invite the mom/sister/grandmother of a legacy to attend initiation? We used to do that at Gamma chapter when I was in college. It was a surprise to t he new member. Next week my daughter will be initiated into a different chapter. I haven't heard anything. I thought about calling the chapter advisor, but I don't want to force myself into their ceremony or embarrass my daughter by being the only one there.

[SWTXBelle]

The chapter may not deal with enough legacies to know how to handle it - or the officer who should have called may not know to. At any rate, this is too important to not be a little pushy. I'd call the chapter advisor and ask about initiation. It would be a great surprise for your daughter, and I can't imagine the actives wouldn't be really touched to have a mother help initiate her daughter. What a fabulous example of how Gamma Phi is for a lifetime! Congratulations!

[GeekyPenguin]

I think you should call the chapter advisor or even the chapter president to see about this - I bet your daughter would love to have you there!