The chapter may not deal with enough legacies to know how to handle it - or the officer who should have called may not know to. At any rate, this is too important to not be a little pushy. I'd call the chapter advisor and ask about initiation. It would be a great surprise for your daughter, and I can't imagine the actives wouldn't be really touched to have a mother help initiate her daughter. What a fabulous example of how Gamma Phi is for a lifetime! Congratulations!
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