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02-05-2010, 03:41 AM
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I feel like it was really rotten of Tim to say that stuff about marrying Emily and having kids during that "What If" game then night he died. Maybe I'm just sore, but honestly, he knew he was going to die. She thinks it was all romantic, him putting the idea of kids and marriage out there so that she'd move on when he was gone and still go after those things. I don't care that he wanted more for her, that he wanted her to live, that was all well and good but he should have never said that. She already wanted to live and she already wanted those things. He should have never planted it in her mind that it would be him marrying her and him giving her children when he knew full well he was going to die and it would never happen. I think that makes the heartbreak that much harder to deal with--he got her hopes up for a future they could never have when he not only didn't need to, but never should have. What do you think?
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I agree 1000%! I saw the movie after my sister and when it got to this part I called her & said the exact same thing. She agreed with me, though. We didn't fight about it.
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02-06-2010, 12:49 AM
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Originally Posted by Brett
He thought that I thought she was with the dude, and that's not what I said. He didn't read, he assumed.
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Originally Posted by Psi U MC Vito
And you are assuming things that I didn't say. The way I read your post, it read like you thought she was in some kind of relationship with her already.
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No dude, and I didn't mean to come off as a dick, but you read it like that because you think a relationship is based in dating/fucking. Hanging out with someone is still a relationship. You don't necessarily have to be nailing that person to call it a relationship. Think about that.
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Dude, I never said a thing about sex being part of a relationship romantic or otherwise. Though when people use the term relationship, they usually mean a romantic one if they don't qualify it otherwise. And you did refer to him as her boyfriend, which is why i read it that way.
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wtf? Dude, you're smoking crack. I never said that dude was her boyfriend, I asked her was she still with that military dude and she is. The dude who just wanted to fuck, I never said he was her boyfriend. I was asking about the other dude, and commenting on the new dude.
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Lol what are y'all arguing about?
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02-10-2010, 06:46 PM
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He was wonderful. It was so wonderful. Last night was one of the best first dates ever.
At least it only took one date to find out about his wife.
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02-10-2010, 06:53 PM
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He was wonderful. It was so wonderful. Last night was one of the best first dates ever.
At least it only took one date to find out about his wife.
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02-10-2010, 07:07 PM
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Originally Posted by christiangirl
He was wonderful. It was so wonderful. Last night was one of the best first dates ever.
At least it only took one date to find out about his wife.
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damn!  i was getting all happy for you too.
btw why was Xan...i mean brett banned? wat did he do now? or is it just as soon as the mods see its him they ban him?
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02-10-2010, 07:18 PM
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btw why was Xan...i mean brett banned? wat did he do now? or is it just as soon as the mods see its him they ban him?
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Vito reported him for saying he had "shit for brains"
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02-10-2010, 07:22 PM
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Vito reported him for saying he had "shit for brains"
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womp womp @ Vito
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02-10-2010, 07:57 PM
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lol
Vito, did you really report him? Me too.  If you did, YAY for Vito! 
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02-10-2010, 09:24 PM
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Yeah I did. Personally, I don't like the guy, but I am willing to tolerate him. But I draw the line at personal attacks aimed at anybody.
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02-10-2010, 09:29 PM
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Yeah I did. Personally, I don't like the guy, but I am willing to tolerate him. But I draw the line at personal attacks aimed at anybody.
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It wasn't a personal attack. It was a username attack. I've seen personal attacks on GC.
Stop being so easily flustered.
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02-10-2010, 09:35 PM
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Yeah I did. Personally, I don't like the guy, but I am willing to tolerate him. But I draw the line at personal attacks aimed at anybody.
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lol lol
I think I started a trend. I'm kidding.
Vito, I agree with you 100%.
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02-10-2010, 10:14 PM
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02-10-2010, 10:29 PM
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Yeah I did. Personally, I don't like the guy, but I am willing to tolerate him. But I draw the line at personal attacks aimed at anybody.
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Really. It's the interwebz. Much worse has been said about me here.
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02-10-2010, 10:51 PM
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If we reported everyone who has "attacked" us, there would be no one left except the mods, who could override the reports on themselves. There's a difference between drawing a line and drawing a circle around one person.
He fully explained himself and, for what it's worth, I believe him. His wife left him (for another woman) and she's ignored all his correspondence for months. But the fact is he is legally married. No matter how it feels to him, I just can't date someone knowing he's someone else's husband. I can appreciate that it's purely legal and not emotional, but McDreamy is still McMarried and that's not a situation I want.
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02-10-2010, 10:52 PM
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He fully explained himself and, for what it's worth, I believe him. His wife left him (for another woman) and she's ignored all his correspondence for months. But the fact is he is legally married. No matter how it feels to him, I just can't date someone knowing he's someone else's husband. Even if it's purely legal and not emotional, McDreamy is still McMarried and that's not a situation I want.
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You are a smart woman. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise.
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