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Dionysus · #**1711** 11-19-2007, 12:38 AM

Oh, I want you so bad that I want to go out and find me a girlfriend just to get my mind off you.

tld221 · #**1712** 11-19-2007, 01:20 AM

ive been feeling really flirtatious these past couple of days. i winked at the guy that helped me at Home Depot today. i was like WTF where'd that come from! and then i did this weird giggly thing with the guy at Burger King at the counter. sigh.

PrettyBoy · #**1713** 11-19-2007, 01:22 AM

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Originally Posted by tld221

ive been feeling really flirtatious these past couple of days. i winked at the guy that helped me at Home Depot today. i was like WTF where'd that come from! and then i did this weird giggly thing with the guy at Burger King at the counter. sigh.

Girl, you just need to try a bowl of chitlins and you'll be alright.

tld221 · #**1714** 11-19-2007, 01:36 AM

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Originally Posted by PrettyBoy

Girl, you just need to try a bowl of chitlins and you'll be alright.

ill be lucky if anyone flirts back smelling like chitlins and what not! and why did my mother offer to make some for thxgiving? lol no thanks

PrettyBoy · #**1715** 11-19-2007, 01:38 AM

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Originally Posted by tld221

ill be lucky if anyone flirts back smelling like chitlins and what not! and why did my mother offer to make some for thxgiving? lol no thanks

LMAO!

Your mother is making chitlins? Tell her I'm on my way over.

crimson_passion · #**1716** 11-19-2007, 02:36 AM

As long as they cook the chitlins at someone else's house I don't mind. That funk is hard to get out of a house!

#**1717** 11-20-2007, 04:59 PM

When the boy says, "Why don't you just move in already?" I don't know if he's being serious or he's joking.

33girl · #**1718** 11-20-2007, 05:05 PM

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Originally Posted by OTW

When the boy says, "Why don't you just move in already?" I don't know if he's being serious or he's joking.

!!!!!

They usually don't joke about stuff like that unless they're talking about you moving your books into their locker.

#**1719** 11-20-2007, 05:10 PM

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Originally Posted by 33girl

!!!!!

They usually don't joke about stuff like that unless they're talking about you moving your books into their locker.

LOL. Last weekend we went to the store to buy me a toothbrush, contact lens stuff, bath stuff, etc. etc. just so I didn't have to keep on bringing my stuff from home everytime I came over. He even cleared out drawer space for my clothes.

It was then that the "Why don't you just move in already?" comment came out.

BetteDavisEyes · #**1720** 11-20-2007, 08:48 PM

Can someone please tell me what the hell does it mean when a man says he has "issues"?

AlphaFrog · #**1721** 11-21-2007, 07:35 AM

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Originally Posted by OTW

LOL. Last weekend we went to the store to buy me a toothbrush, contact lens stuff, bath stuff, etc. etc. just so I didn't have to keep on bringing my stuff from home everytime I came over. He even cleared out drawer space for my clothes.

It was then that the "Why don't you just move in already?" comment came out.

Have a piece of mail sent there, and see what happens.

Toothbrush + PJs + getting mail = living there.

PM_Mama00 · #**1722** 11-21-2007, 09:59 AM

Dear Psychotic Bitch,
Yes, I know he's your boyfriend. I know you've seen the text messages I've sent to his best friend about him. Hey. Can't help who you fall for, but at least I'm not going for him. Oh and if you make up one more thing that I apparently said, or anymore conversations between us, I WILL beat your f***ing ass.

Sincerely Yours,
NOT a band groupie

PrettyBoy · #**1723** 11-24-2007, 01:18 AM

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Long story ladies, but I need your help!

Four dates with the girl...over eight weeks.

Date 1: Not really a date. We went to the football game together, hit it off, and spent the entire day together.

Date 2: Went to her favorite restaurant and everything went really well. I went in for the goodnight kiss and got a hug instead. At least she didn't notice...

Date 3: Really fun date function. She was all giddy and excited about it beforehand. Unmistakably good body language from her. Her friends had assured me though that she was a "Third Date Kisser" and no sooner. So I didn't try this date, because it really was only the second. I got a long hug and a big kiss on the cheek.
Also wrote some flirty stuff on my facebook the next day.

*At this point I ask her out twice more and got "I'm busy with school" type of responses*
Two week period, by the way.
I ended up just going to her place and asking her what was going on. WHY DID I DO THAT?!

I got some typical girl responses. It went something like this:
"I recently got out of a very serious relationship and he really hurt me. I like you, but I want to take things slow. I can't promise that anything will or won't happen, because I don't know."

So obviously, I never called her again. She calls me five days later, making small talk, until the awkwardness is so painful I ask if she wants to do something. She says "yes" and I ask what she wants to do. (I'm not making this easy for her)

Date 4: We go to a basketball game together, but I really stay back. No handholding, arm around the shoulders- nothing. Goodbye hug.

This girl has got me beat. I was completely straightforward with her, and now she's got me all confused. She wants to move slow, but I'm not exactly Richard Petty over here.
Four dates over eight weeks is painfully slow.

What's going on and what should I do? Any kind of advice is welcome.

I know you're asking for the ladies advice, but being a guy like you, I would put the ball in her court now. You started off as the aggressor, and then she all of a sudden tells you she wants to take things slow. I don't think anything is wrong with that at all. At least she didn't want to sleep with you on the 1st date. She sounds like a good woman with good morals to me. If you really like her, then you should move at her pace. Also you shouldn't put your heart into it right away. It's hard to tell what's on a woman's mind. They'll tell you one thing and do another. The reason why I'm telling you not to put your heart into it right away, is because in the end if it doesn't work out, then you're not hurt or disappointed at whatever comes from it. So far, I think you're playing it cool.

Good luck. I hope everything works out for you two.

Fleur de Lis · #**1724** 11-24-2007, 11:25 AM

It sounds like she is in a very vulnerable place - just broke up with the boyfriend, etc. She had the guts to call and try to move forward, then you start pulling away. If you really are, I would let her know you're still interested, and don't punish her for being honest and vulnerable. Then start small affections - hand on the small of her back, brush her hair out of her face, etc. As you get more comfortable with each other, I think a conversation about expectations is perfectly fine. I hope this helps!

catiebug · #**1725** 11-24-2007, 12:01 PM

When you find out, will you please let me know?

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Originally Posted by BetteDavisEyes

Can someone please tell me what the hell does it mean when a man says he has "issues"?