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Old 09-03-2018, 12:33 PM
Rayofsun Rayofsun is offline
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Question Reinstatement

Has anyone ever been successfully reinstated after resigning their membership? I resigned my membership from my sorority a few months due to a personal crisis. A family member became critically ill and I went into a manic state resulting from traumatic stress and depression. I didnít want my sisters to find out about what I was going through so i decided that resigning would be the best decision but in hindsight i shouldíve just asked for help. I immediately regretted my decision after dropping but didnít know what to do. After months of seeking medical treatment and going to therapy, I still feel regret over my decision to drop. I deeply loved my sorority and it pains me to walk around campus knowing that I walked away from one of best things in my life due to mental health. I saw some posts on reinstatement but Iím not sure if it applies for all sororities. Would it be possible to appeal for reinstatement? Is it worth the shot? Iím a Junior but Iím a semester ahead so, Iím technically a Senior.
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Old 09-03-2018, 12:49 PM
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Has anyone ever been successfully reinstated after resigning their membership? I resigned my membership from my sorority a few months due to a personal crisis. A family member became critically ill and I went into a manic state resulting from traumatic stress and depression. I didnít want my sisters to find out about what I was going through so i decided that resigning would be the best decision but in hindsight i shouldíve just asked for help. I immediately regretted my decision after dropping but didnít know what to do. After months of seeking medical treatment and going to therapy, I still feel regret over my decision to drop. I deeply loved my sorority and it pains me to walk around campus knowing that I walked away from one of best things in my life due to mental health. I saw some posts on reinstatement but Iím not sure if it applies for all sororities. Would it be possible to appeal for reinstatement? Is it worth the shot? Iím a Junior but Iím a semester ahead so, Iím technically a Senior.
Whether this is possible depends on your sorority. I'd contact HQ directly.

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Old 09-03-2018, 05:50 PM
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Are you still in touch with any of your sisters? Are they aware this is something you really didnít want to do but your mental health compelled it?

Contact your national HQ and if it turns out you can be reinstated, I would definitely be straight up with your sisters and explain why you left. If someone left my chapter with no explanation and came back with no explanation, I wouldnít be inclined to be very welcoming.
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Old 09-03-2018, 08:00 PM
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Yes I am in contact with some of my sisters. I addressed my resignation to the chapter after i dropped and some of my sisters reached out to me in support of my decision. I had a very good relationship with the members
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Old 09-03-2018, 08:15 PM
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Yes I am in contact with some of my sisters. I addressed my resignation to the chapter after i dropped and some of my sisters reached out to me in support of my decision. I had a very good relationship with the members
You were an initiated member, not a pledge, correct?
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Old 09-03-2018, 09:10 PM
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For my organisation, you have to wait a year to apply for reinstatement, and I know a few others that have similar requirements. Your national office should be able to help. Good luck, I hope you can get the answers you need!!
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Old 09-04-2018, 01:52 AM
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You were an initiated member, not a pledge, correct?
Yes I was
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Old 09-04-2018, 11:52 AM
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if you left the chapter owing any money, you will have to pay that debt. You would only be considered to be reinstated if there are no outstanding payments.
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Old 09-04-2018, 01:00 PM
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Rayofsun, please check with your national headquarters. If you can, please come back and let us know how it all turned out. Wishing you the best.
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