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Originally Posted by Titchou
Y'all are missing the point of notifying the legacy connection. It's so SHE can let the PNM know she's been released by the group because it's felt it would be better coming from her than finding out when handed a list of invites just before parties start.
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I agree with this. My roommate was a megaleg at a sorority that cut her the night before prefs (ouch). Her mother lit up the phone to our room that night, but unfortunately, roomie was out with friends at a bar and didn't get the news from Mom til about an hour before the pref invitations went out.
She ended up dropping after she got her list - she had two sororities left, either would have been a good fit for her, but her favorite (other than legacy) had dropped her and she was done.
I got dropped by my bio sis' sorority after round two, and I believe they called her. But she was working on rush at her own school and didn't have time to "let me down gently". I was neither surprised nor hurt when I got dropped. I was devastated to have been cut from a house where I knew a bunch of girls from HS who had graduated with my sister.
But obviously, I got over it - my top choice kept me til the very end and we all lived happily ever after.
Except my roommate and her mother. But whatev.