So here is the deal,
Next year I will be heading off for college,
Ive been to some rush parties (yes already) and I even got a bid. . .which I accepted
The thing is, if you didnt notice from the title... I'm bi (it's acually more confusing than that, but we don't have the time
) and the thing I'm worried about most of all, more than leaving my parents, more than tuition and scholarships, is what to do about this situation.
I read some of your other post and they all seemed pretty motivational (cept for Fred and his buddies
). But i'm still nervous cause I know the contents of this board cannot reflect the entire fraternity system.
So what should i do? Should I :
1)play it off the whole for years I'm there and just not ever let them get to know the real me?
2)or give them time to warm up to it and tell them one by one?
3) or should this be the first thing out of my mouth when they open the door to great me.
I would normally opt for #2, but i have heard that may cause a ruckus because i wasnt honest with them to begin with.
and #1 and #3 have their obvious disadvantages.
I'm totally lost here guys, any and all info would be helpful
Thanx for reading all that
PS::: I'm no flammer
I sought My God and I could not see
I sought my soul and it alluded me
I sought my brother and found all three