Carnation, I give you a whole lot of applause for handling this as well as you seem to. My gawd, they're not even my children and as the kids I work with say when they are getting over anxious, "I'm spazzing out" over here in NY. And as Marissa said, if one or both decide to go Alpha Gam, they might be getting spoiled by some GC ones from all over the country, lol.
It's great to hear that Ballerina and Blazercheet are having so much fun with rush. I iwsh them the best of luck and hope they will be happy in the house they may get selected to. It's obvious that they have a great Rush/Recruitment Coach (Hmm another term for Rho Chi)in you.
If all your kids go greek, how on earth are you and your husband going to remember what org. each is in??? And hey you'll have your own lil badge collection
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About the computerized system/scantrons. Michigan uses this system, although I am not sure what version they use. At UM after the first day of Recruitment at UM, the girls go back and rank all the houses in preference on the scantron. At the same time the sororities are ranking the rushees, and then everything goes into the computer and it goes from there. I believe this is done for Sets I-III, Pref. and the final list for Bid Day.
Does it have its glitches? Like many have posted before, just asked a girl who wanted XYZ and XYZ wanted her too, but the computer did match them
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