I Might Be Released Soon

sherryanne · #1 09-01-2009, 12:12 AM

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KSUViolet06 · #2 09-01-2009, 12:18 AM

Something to think about:

Not having the max number of parties every round doesn't mean you're going to be released. A full schedule everyday is not necessary to receive a bid.
With that said, if you go into your parties thinking "OMG I'm going to be released," that negativity will show in your conversation/attitude and it just might happen.

You can't change things like your class standing and the fact that you have been through rush before, so why stress over it?

You may be released, you may not. Just see what happens.

AlphaXi_Husky · #3 09-01-2009, 12:49 AM

I agree with KSU - the last thing you want to do is let the stress or doubt come through in your conversation or in your demeanor. As hard as it is, the best thing is to be the best possible version of yourself and try and make connections with the women in the chapters you're returning to. I realize that's easier said than done. Good luck to you.

texas*princess · #4 09-01-2009, 12:52 AM

Totally agreed w/ everything KSU said.

Instead of being nervous and worrying, you should focus on making sure the real you shines through at your rush parties (and not the scared, nervous you) so you can make the best impression possible.

I think you also shouldn't be afraid to let those houses know how excited you are to learn more about their sisterhood or how happy you are to see them again. It's showing your interest, but not in a weird scary kinda way.

WCsweet<3 · #5 09-01-2009, 01:14 AM

Totally agree with everything above. Remember it only takes one invite to join a sorority.

kellyelizabeth7 · #6 09-01-2009, 01:58 AM

All true. Put on your big girl panties and kick some ass! Best of luck to you.

ThetaDancer · #7 09-01-2009, 08:07 AM

Great advice! Stay positive and confident. Don't waste energy worrying about things you can't control at this point; instead, focus all of your effort into putting your best foot forward during recruitment today. Good luck!

TXalum1 · #8 09-01-2009, 08:12 AM

People have given you great advice, and it's so true. Somebody I know went through as an upperclassmen and grades that weren't as good as some pnms. She only went to one pref party, but it was the one she really wanted. Now she is a very happy member for that group's new member class.

It's not about how many parties you attend but whether they are the right parties for you!

perfectinpurple · #9 09-01-2009, 12:47 PM

Good Luck!!

lsumomx2 · #10 09-01-2009, 12:51 PM

Please listen to everyone's advice here. My daughter's friend had only 2 invites back after the intial round. She stuck it out the entire week and is now a happy sorority girl.

Put a big smile on your face and keep an open mind. Good luck.

bostongreek · #11 09-01-2009, 12:59 PM

please read this:

http://www.greekchat.com/gcforums/sh...d.php?t=107120

ThetaPrincess24 · #12 09-01-2009, 01:52 PM

I went through as a junior. I didnt have a full schedule of parties every day, and while that scared me, I stayed optimistic and actually ended up having a full preference party schedule, and ultimately receiving a bid.

A lot more PNM's than you would think probably dont have full schedules either, even those who are freshman. Stay positive and enjoy the rest of your parties.

Barbie's_Rush · #13 09-01-2009, 05:00 PM

I think having two houses left at this point is pretty promising considering you were dropped completely the first time you rushed and didn't receive a bid when you went through COR. Good luck!

SWTXBelle · #14 09-01-2009, 05:59 PM

Indicating your enthusiasm is perfectly fine - in fact, it's something the chapters may well be looking for (they certainly don't want to invite women who aren't interested in them to pref.). YOU can say you feel at home, can see yourself here, etc., THEY have to be very careful not to say anything that might be construed as "promising" you an invitation to pref/bid.

gee_ess · #15 09-01-2009, 08:38 PM

I think it is a good idea to give the members an idea of what you are thinking. It's kind of like going on a date and never ever saying, "This is fun." or "I really enjoyed dinner. We should do it again." Without positive feedback, your date would probably not be sure if you wanted to go out again.

Both sides of recruitment are looking for positive feedback, so, imo, you should definitely express your interest. Don't be stalker/crazy/when can I move in interested, but do give them something they can take back to the others: "She said she felt so at home with us!" "She told me how happy she was to be back at our house and was so enthusiastic about our philanthropy."