COB questionnnn !!!!

nervousrush · #1 09-28-2011, 02:08 AM

So I dropped out the morning of the pref round once I found out I only got into one house, and the ONLY house I did not want to be in. After realizing I was possibly acting snobby, they invited me back to the house, and after hanging out with them twice and going to events I realized that I hated everything about it ! So I didn't return for the remainder of the events and a few days one of the girls asked me if i wanted to accept a bid and of course I said no. Is that considered Continuous open Bidding and will that bar me from being able to go through spring recruitment ?

WhiteDaisy128 · #2 09-28-2011, 02:23 AM

This question was answered in your last post.

Yes, it's COB.

No, it does not make you inelegible unless you sign a bid card or a COB agreement of some kind.

violetpretty · #3 09-28-2011, 10:29 PM

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Originally Posted by nervousrush

So I dropped out the morning of the pref round once I found out I only got into one house, and the ONLY house I did not want to be in. After realizing I was possibly acting snobby, they invited me back to the house, and after hanging out with them twice and going to events I realized that I hated everything about it ! So I didn't return for the remainder of the events and a few days one of the girls asked me if i wanted to accept a bid and of course I said no. Is that considered Continuous open Bidding and will that bar me from being able to go through spring recruitment ?

What was so repulsive about a chapter that would cause you to "hate everything about it?"

AnotherKD · #4 09-29-2011, 08:09 AM

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Originally Posted by violetpretty

What was so repulsive about a chapter that would cause you to "hate everything about it?"

I was kind of wondering that myself.

nervousrush · #5 10-08-2011, 09:49 PM

Alrighty, thank you very much ! When I found out I wasn't invited back to any of the houses I was devastated. I figured, however, that since this house liked me enough to choose me I should at least give them a shot. So after going to a few of their rush events, I found that we are NOT COMPATIBLE at all. I can't explain it, but you can feel when something is for you and when it isn't . Its like going on an awkward date with the same guy 10 times in a row. If its' not meant to be, its just not meant to be. And I wanted to re-rush, bc One of my friends who is in the chapter I wanted to be apart of thinks I should do informal and I guess If i don't make it for the 2nd time I'll just take it as, maybe greek life just isn't for me.