It's not about ME-A mom's rush story

[NYCMS]

I grew up in the same environment that momoffour is in and totally get it.

And I would hope the judgment as to which sorority one pledges would stop in environments like this. I get not wanting a loved one in a chapter that always struggles but I've known girls who pledged houses st SEC schools that were strong middle tier houses but not a "top 5" or not a deeply cherished Southern stronghold sorority. The conversation among some moms and friends was "She could have pledged X and I wish she had BUT ... (fill in the blank, said with a sigh). Not all moms, of course but some.

And it's not much different re: judgment and perception in other areas like getting into an elite private school vs public university. Doesn't mean you're a better person, perhaps you simply wanted a difference environment or experience.