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Old 03-21-2001, 02:26 AM
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thank you damasa and Billy. You are both right. Grrrr. I get wound too tightly sometimes. But why hasn't he called back? ha ha ha ha ha ha

Danger of too much thought and analysis. Hopefully I will hear from him soon, its getting weird.
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Old 03-21-2001, 11:40 AM
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Hey Amy,

I'm not a guy but I thought I'd respond anyway. You are ABSOLUTELY right about guys being slick out of college. I've met a couple of players lately and it took a while for me to figure out that they weren't the "nice" guys they originally appeared to be. They can hide themselves really well!!

One guy in particular was so into me from the moment we met that I was sure he was "the one." He'd call and we'd be on the phone for hours. He'd send the sweetest e-mails when he was out of town (he traveled alot for work, too). Then, about 4 months into our relationship, I find out that he's been seeing his "ex"-girlfriend the whole time (who he'd described to me as a psycho chick who stalked him) and that all those business trips were time he was spending with her. So, my advice is: Just be cautious! And good luck We all deserve a nice guy!
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Old 03-21-2001, 01:26 PM
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We all deserve a nice guy![/B]
I have to stay that I totally agree with dzrose. I thought I would post because I know what you're going through. You find this really great guy and you're afraid to call or call too much because you think he'll consider you to be a stalker. YEP...I've been there. I'd definitely say go for it!!! He sounds like a really nice guy and he sounds like he's genuinely interested in you. I have to agree with billy when he said that any guy with a 12 step amy deprivation plan is no player. He sounds like a sweetheart and I wish you the best of luck. Maybe if y'all end up together...I can finally have DAVE all to myself. LOL. Keep us posted!!!!

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Old 03-21-2001, 04:33 PM
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Allison you crack me up. Dave was TWO BLOCKS form me this morning at an event in my neighborhood--if only I could've sniffed him out. ha ha

UPDATE: He called. Very apologetic. Work is killing him- he is a litigator. Extending his L.A. trip so we may see each other this weekend.

thanks everyone!
A
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Old 03-21-2001, 04:44 PM
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UPDATE: He called. Very apologetic. Work is killing him- he is a litigator. Extending his L.A. trip so we may see each other this weekend.thanks everyone!
A
uh oh

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Old 03-21-2001, 04:46 PM
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uh-oh? please explain...
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Old 03-21-2001, 04:50 PM
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Oh never mind I read it wrong. I thought he was in L.A. Like permentaly and my friends (who almost was more than friends with) boyfriend went there to be a lawyer too. I already don't like him cuz all he had to do was send an email saying "i miss you" and he got her back. That was last semester though. so don't worry Its not the same guy unless he is named Andy and tall and blonde
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Old 03-21-2001, 05:09 PM
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definitely not the same guy. this guy is older. six years older than me.
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Old 03-21-2001, 06:03 PM
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I never met the guy but the girl is like three years older than me and he is kinda older than her, so good neither one of you are getting played
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Old 03-21-2001, 06:04 PM
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Thats great Amy. I hope everything works out
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Old 03-21-2001, 07:14 PM
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WOOT! WOOT! score one for the amycat!!!

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Old 03-21-2001, 07:40 PM
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You guys are the best. thank you! He called me three times today-left messages, left message, then got me.

Seeing him on Sunday before he leaves!
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Old 03-21-2001, 10:05 PM
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are you gonna tell us his name?
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Old 03-21-2001, 10:36 PM
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robert.

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Old 03-21-2001, 10:42 PM
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oooo an ivy leaguer, huh?
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