The "What If?" Sororities

[AngieWashU]

I have one big "what if"...

My mom and grandmother are both Alpha Phis and I always wanted to be an Alpha Phi as well--it was only that background that prompted to go through formal recruitment. The day before pref the Alpha Phi who was talking to me left me by myself during their skit. At the time I didn't understand why my whole perception of the Alpha Phis changed that night. I called my mom and cried because I had to eliminate two chapters that night and Alpha Phi was going to be one of them. So my question is:

what if I had gone back to Alpha Phi's pref party?

I don't think I would change a thing now because I am a collegiate chapter adviser for a DG chapter and love it--something I could not do if was an Alpha Phi (no chapter here).