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Originally Posted by prob
lack of pledge duties, etc.
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You are upset that you aren't being hazed? (That's what "pledge duties" has been code for at the schools I've worked with.)
It sounds like you have no concept of what being in a fraternity is actually about. I suggest you get off the internet (especially TFM or whatever sites you are using to base your evaluation from) and get to know your brothers a bit better.
Try to contribute instead of complaining.
And do some serious thinking about what you want to gain from a fraternity versus what you have to contribute. Those lists should be even. If they aren't, I doubt your next experience (if you are so lucky to get one - either in your current group or another who is benevolent enough to give you a chance) is going to be any better.