What is it REALLY like?

[carnation]

Oh, did I ever get that in Hawaii.

[AXOmom]

We moved from West Virginia to Denver when I was seven. I think I spent the first 1 1/2 years there repeating the words "Pie", "Hi", "Sky" basically anything with a long i sound because that's what everyone asked me to do. I was beginning to think I was a parrot.

When I moved to Oregon at 18, everyone my freshman year of college would ask "Are you from Texas?" apparently believing the only state that produces a southern accent or some semblance of it is Texas....and I didn't even HAVE a southern accent (it's hillbilly, thank you very much and a very worn off hillbilly at that).

Sometimes they would look at me quizzically and ask "Where are you from?" Just to throw them I'd say, "Denver" and wait for them to get confused. Then I'd say, "Well, I'm from the south end of Denver."

[AlphaFrog]

I've now lived in the South for almost 1/3 of my life, but I was raised in Central Illinois. Down here, I sound like a Yankee to natives, back in my hometown they tease me about my southern accent.

[AXOmom]

We were back in WVa visiting family and my MIL said that the school where she worked was having a retirement party for "Grace" who was going to be moving back to N. Carolina where she was from. MIL says, "We LOVE her. She's so sweet and she has the cutest accent." I point out to MIL that she also has an accent. She replies, "Oh, but not THAT kind of an accent. Grace really has an accent." .

Strangely, my nieces who have spent their entire lives in Cary, N. Carolina don't have a trace of an accent. They sound like news anchors.

[MysticCat]

Originally Posted by AXOmom

Strangely, my nieces who have spent their entire lives in Cary, N. Carolina don't have a trace of an accent. They sound like news anchors.

Hardly anybody in Cary (aka "Containment Area for Relocated Yankess") has an accent unless they're at least 50+. But go just a few miles to Garner, Knightdale or parts of "Rawleigh" and it's a whole 'nother story.

[AlphaFrog]

Originally Posted by MysticCat

Hardly anybody in Cary (aka "Containment Area for Relocated Yankess") has an accent unless they're at least 50+. But go just a few miles to Garner, Knightdale or parts of "Rawleigh" and it's a whole 'nother story.

Charlotte's not necessarily thick with southern accents, but most of my.coworkers are native South Carolinians, so I blame them for my accent.

[MysticCat]

Originally Posted by AlphaFrog

Charlotte's not necessarily thick with southern accents . . . .

Well, there is Myers Park.

[AlphaFrog]

Originally Posted by MysticCat

Well, there is Myers Park.

Well, yeah...if you're into that old money Southern Belle thing.

[agzg]

As far as accents go, I'm so happy to be among my people, curse words and all.

[AXOmom]

Originally Posted by MysticCat

Hardly anybody in Cary (aka "Containment Area for Relocated Yankess") has an accent unless they're at least 50+. But go just a few miles to Garner, Knightdale or parts of "Rawleigh" and it's a whole 'nother story.

Yeah, I asked my BIL and SIL (who both have WVa accents) about it (BIL teaches at Cary High) and that was what they told me - very few people in Cary are actually from N Carolina or the South for that matter, so they didn't really hear many southern accents.

[Xidelt]

Originally Posted by AlphaFrog

I've now lived in the South for almost 1/3 of my life, but I was raised in Central Illinois. Down here, I sound like a Yankee to natives, back in my hometown they tease me about my southern accent.

I get this too! I lived in New York State, came to Georgia to attend college, and ended up staying.

PS I knew that the kitchen chapter reference was tongue-in-cheek. I just had not heard the term before.

[VandalSquirrel]

Originally Posted by Absisca

Everyone talks about how Sorority girls are snooty, trashy, uptight, crazy partiers, bitches, ect.
I want to know what its REALLY like before I rush. Straight up honesty. I want to go to Washington State University.
What do you think?

One of the hazing stories I've heard is having to eat three bowls of lentil chili, put on white satin pants, then play Twister with a fraternity. There is one chapter that makes each pledge eat a 30 oz wheel of Crimson Fire, without crackers.

The worst hazing is called The Scottish Play. The girls stay in a room until a buffet of dishes made with lentils, eggs, mushrooms, cabbage, and cheese is finished. Then they have them put on their bathing suits and get into a fraternity's pool. They chant "Double, double, toil and trouble; fire burn and cauldron bubble." until a girl makes the cauldron bubble. That girl gets the pledge name Hecate.

[AXOmom]

^^^Now that you mention it, I think daughter knew Hecate '07.

I have to say the most horrific part of your story is the lentil chili. Lentils are a sacred business in the Palouse and should never be used in such a despicable way by mean, witchy sorority girls. That alone should have gotten them kicked off campus and out of eastern Washington altogether. Daughter's first cheerleading duty at WSU was marching in the nationally famous Pullman Lentil Parade. Her FB status that day read, "I can't believe I'm marching in a parade for a bean."

By the way, since I've heard non-stop praise for Cougar cheese from every corner - does being forced to eat a 30 oz wheel of Crimson fire fall into the hazing category or the gift category?

[AZTheta]

^^^ gift category, definitely.

I have a 30 oz wheel of Crimson Fire in my refrigerator. I am not sharing. Cannot wait for the weather to cool down so Cougar Cheese will ship to AZ again. Best damned cheese I've eaten in a very long time. Whoever on GC turned me on to it: thank you.

[AZTheta]

^^^ I feel your pain. I am stocking up as well. Really jonesing for some of the Cougar Gold. Sigh... if I had one thing to do over today, it would be to order Cougar Cheese when I have the chance.

Don't get me started on Rustic Caramels. Those are to die for.

Okay, back to the topic of awful sorority girls. *yawn*