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01-06-2009, 11:36 AM
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Originally Posted by Kevin
Yeah, my bad, didn't read the article.
Maybe Queen Latifah?
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nah...come back...
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Originally Posted by DrPhil
Your post is evidence that she's opening herself up to scrutiny. Not love.
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But of course...I mean even hearing her on the raido this morning, she had 4 dates lined up this week and booked next week and so on, so the question and a few others are going to be asked...as a matter of fact, let's ask this one...with what she is doing (without Flava Flav and ABC's help) how does she plan on cultivating and sustaining a natural relationship if she has 'so many men' and so little time in between all the dating that's going on?
Now...on the flipside...to all Black women everywhere...if this (average looking) woman can get 4 dates in a week and be booked solid til God knows when, us Black men don't wanna hear shyt about there is "a shortage of Black men." LOL
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01-06-2009, 11:46 AM
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Originally Posted by DaemonSeid
Now...on the flipside...to all Black women everywhere...if this (average looking) woman can get 4 dates in a week and be booked solid til God knows when, us Black men don't wanna hear shyt about there is "a shortage of Black men." LOL
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Save this shit for another time.
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01-06-2009, 12:05 PM
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I feel like this would work if she were prettier.
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The NY Daily News photo is much cuter than any of the website photos, but sheesh. Not cute. And desperate.
Why are there so many desperate-ass black women out there airing their dirty laundry? Makes the rest of us look bad...    
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01-06-2009, 12:08 PM
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Where?
And none of this is salient enough to make black women look bad. 
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01-06-2009, 12:22 PM
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In my experience people tend to find someone when they're not looking. Happened for me, happened for my brother, and 98% of my married friends.
In fact, most of my single friends who ARE looking haven't been in a relationship since they started looking.
I hope she finds him, though. Everyone likes a happy ending.
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01-06-2009, 12:23 PM
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Originally Posted by alphagamzetagam
In my experience people tend to find someone when they're not looking. Happened for me, happened for my brother, and 98% of my married friends.
In fact, most of my single friends who ARE looking haven't been in a relationship since they started looking.
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Exactly what I was thinking.
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01-06-2009, 12:34 PM
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Originally Posted by alphagamzetagam
In my experience people tend to find someone when they're not looking. Happened for me, happened for my brother, and 98% of my married friends.
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It happened for me.
I wasn't in the mindset for a relationship and HE found me at the least likely venue. LOL
Made me put my pimp cup down. 
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01-06-2009, 12:53 PM
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Right. I was coming out of a relationship and the last thing I wanted was another relationship. My brother did not intend to meet and fall in love with one of my roommates (and get married and have a baby on the way).
But, I do understand that the older you get, the chances of that type of hook up happening get smaller. Especially when you add criteria to the relationship.
I'm not saying that wanting someone who shares Christian ideals is wrong (it certainly isn't!), but by adding "should haves" to the equation you limit your dating pool significantly.
My dad's having a hell of a time finding someone to be in a relationship with. There was a woman he was friends with that he wanted to date but they did not want to date him (when a woman has been single for almost 50 years, you have to think there's a reason. Not that she's a lesbian necessarily, but maybe she enjoys keeping her own company or her life is too full already to add a serious relationship) or there have been women that want to date him but he does not want to date them. A friend of his really wants to be in a relationship with him (and she has told him several times), but she's 10 years older than him and he doesn't want to go through losing a wife again.
Of course, I think dad jinxes it by putting too much pressure on marriage, as well. Of course, when I suggested maybe he could be neighbors to a woman he dates (he is looking to move) or they could live together, he acted like I told him that he should sleep with every single skirt in town.
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01-06-2009, 01:35 PM
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Originally Posted by alphagamzetagam
In my experience people tend to find someone when they're not looking. Happened for me, happened for my brother, and 98% of my married friends.
In fact, most of my single friends who ARE looking haven't been in a relationship since they started looking.
I hope she finds him, though. Everyone likes a happy ending.
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Originally Posted by ASTalumna06
Exactly what I was thinking.
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Originally Posted by DrPhil
It happened for me.
I wasn't in the mindset for a relationship and HE found me at the least likely venue. LOL
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Happened like that for me as well.
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01-06-2009, 01:42 PM
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Poot on all of you. 
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01-06-2009, 01:52 PM
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$5 bucks the same dating site hopping greekchatters (I won't mention any names lol) will be on that dating site too.
ETA: I just read that she's 42 and she still hasn't found a guy? ....Oh dear God!
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01-06-2009, 02:51 PM
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Originally Posted by cheerfulgreek
$5 bucks the same dating site hopping greekchatters (I won't mention any names lol) will be on that dating site too.
ETA: I just read that she's 42 and she still hasn't found a guy? ....Oh dear God! |
Im sorry did you say www.craigslist.com?
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01-06-2009, 03:00 PM
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If it makes you feel any better (or assuages any fears, real or perceived), I would choke a kid to have more desperate black women in my area.
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01-06-2009, 03:02 PM
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Originally Posted by KSig RC
If it makes you feel any better (or assuages any fears, real or perceived), I would choke a kid to have more desperate black women in my area.
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I almost choked on my Sprite...thanks!
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01-06-2009, 07:15 PM
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Originally Posted by alphagamzetagam
In my experience people tend to find someone when they're not looking. Happened for me, happened for my brother, and 98% of my married friends.
In fact, most of my single friends who ARE looking haven't been in a relationship since they started looking.
I hope she finds him, though. Everyone likes a happy ending.
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True. I also find that when you put timelines on something (such as "by the end of the year I want to have a bf/be engaged"), you're more likely to rush into a relationship that may not be right for you, and end up with someone just for the sake of being engaged/married. Who wants that?
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