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Old 03-14-2015, 07:55 PM
1963 Owtlaw 1963 Owtlaw is offline
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Lol! CG? -- a gold digger? Nah, I can't see it. She's too cool for that.
Let's wait for her to respond, home's. Watch her say she wouldn't give pizza dude the time of day. LOL.
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Old 03-15-2015, 05:22 AM
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I think you should keep the rule about "not married" though. Every time I have relaxed one of my rules, in the end, I said to myself "That's why you had that rule!"
Uh YEAH. "Not married" definitely does not like a rule that would sabotage you.
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Old 03-15-2015, 10:49 PM
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A job/career/same thing. Making ends meet as in making a living for yourself. So let's say you weren't married and you were single and you met one of your clients whose pet you treat. He became a regular, but he was physically attracted to you. During that time after several client to veterinarian conversations, he asked you for your.phone number. But at the same time after sharing with you what he did for a living (he delivered pizza for a living), would you give up the digits? You also found him friendly, down-to-earth and attractive. Would you date him? Is that detailed enough for you, CG?
A job and a career are two different things, to me.

But to answer your question -- no, I would not. Delivering pizzas? Uh, uh. I think it's important to anticipate growing together and building a life together, so a man in his early 20s with potential is a beautiful thing. But I'll be 32 next month, so if he was my age or older, like in his early 40s, a man with potential but no actual accomplishments is no longer attractive, to me. Other women may not care what he does for a living, but to me, by this time, a man should be more established in his purpose.

When I was dating I always took a man's status in his career goals, his ability to provide, into account when I was considering him. In other words, if I got on an airplane and I was informed that the pilot had never been formally trained and was unqualified to fly the plane, I would get off immediately. The same thing applied in my dating. I made sure the man I said "I do" to was qualified to be a husband.

You can keep "Little Caesar".

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LOL you don't know Cheerful, home's.
And you don't either.
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Old 03-15-2015, 11:40 PM
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LOL! Ay Phrozen, I told you, home's.
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Old 03-19-2015, 04:05 AM
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1. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=01yPbUXnJZk

2. I miss nikki1920. She had the juiciest D&R stories.
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Old 03-19-2015, 11:27 AM
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1. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=01yPbUXnJZk

2. I miss nikki1920. She had the juiciest D&R stories.
She did!

I guess the bad(?) thing about being in a committed relationship is that I have no more ridiculous date stories. Oh well. And since I moved to California the catcalls aren't even as funny.
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Old 03-19-2015, 04:56 PM
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Well, how the heck are YOU?!?! Haven't heard from you in a while!
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Old 03-19-2015, 09:16 PM
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In the back of my mind, something says "he's lying".
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Old 03-20-2015, 02:40 AM
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Time for more shout-outs to our significant others. Say One thing to your SO with One song.

My thoughts
http://youtu.be/_oVI0GW-Xd4
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Old 03-20-2015, 10:02 AM
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In the back of my mind, something says "he's lying".
What makes you think that, DG?

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Time for more shout-outs to our significant others. Say One thing to your SO with One song.

My thoughts
http://youtu.be/_oVI0GW-Xd4
Bruh,
I was wondering how it was going....but I guess it's going alright!!

Keep doing you, nephew...06!
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Old 03-20-2015, 10:34 AM
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Since Phroz wanna play DJ on a Friday....

here's my shout-out to my "boo"

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pf83djaaTS4
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Old 03-20-2015, 12:52 PM
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Old 03-20-2015, 05:31 PM
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I felt this was a fitting song/video because it reminds me of day 1 to where we ended up.
http://youtu.be/uld38YmxriE

Phroz, I know you said one song only but can I give her one more shout out?........
























































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http://youtu.be/eUDcTLaWJuo
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Old 03-20-2015, 07:13 PM
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What makes you think that, DG?
Bruh,
I was wondering how it was going....but I guess it's going alright!!

Keep doing you, nephew...06!
Bruh, we're doing well. Learning new things about each other each day we're together. She's a gem.
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here's my shout-out to my "boo"

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pf83djaaTS4
Lol @ playing DJ on Friday. That's a great song, though. Very fitting for a happy relationship.
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Phroz, I know you said one song only but can I give her one more shout out?........

Lawd have mercy!
http://youtu.be/eUDcTLaWJuo
Lmfao! You posted this song twice Lol! Must be nice. I hear you, though. Ms. Phrozen has nice legs, too.
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Old 03-20-2015, 10:28 PM
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What makes you think that, DG?
You know how when you just get that good or bad vibe from someone? Just some of the things he says. We only went out once but we talked on the phone the other times. Some of what he says on the phone doesn't line up with what he said on the first date. And then his total make-up. The way he talks, dresses, etc. But at the same time, I don't like judging people. I also get the impression that he just wants one thing. It's just really hard to trust men because what y'all see is what seems to drive y'all. I'm actually fine with that, but at the same time I don't know what their agenda is because of that.
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