Questions about Greek Life (from an outsider [UK])

geryon · #1 02-21-2009, 11:02 PM

Hi,

I'm a British student hoping to commence PhD study in the USA soon. I am 24 and am curious about Greek life, having heard the good and the bad. Can you answer a few of my questions?

Is my age and scholastic level a barrier? (Ie are Frats undergrad institutions)

Secondly, the UK is very multicultural and our student bodies are thoroughly integrated. Can people of any background join a Greek organization?

Are there graduate specific organizations?

I would be grateful if you can help me out with this information. My applications are in process with UCLA and Berkeley, so any institution insights would be great.

Thanks,

Geryon

KSUViolet06 · #2 02-21-2009, 11:25 PM

Whether a fraternity allows grad students depends on the specific fraternity. They are mostly geared toward undergraduates.

Just wait until you get to Berkeley or UCLA and check them out.

geryon · #3 02-22-2009, 11:39 AM

And the question on integration?

sigmaceli · #4 02-22-2009, 12:41 PM

Yes, I would say our groups are integrated.

Many chapters may be less diverse because of their geographical area, but overall, our national organizations are welcoming, regardless of male, female or co-ed groups.

As for the fact that you are pursuing a Ph.D., some undergraduate chapters may not be able to recruit you, but there are a lot of alumni chapters around UCLA/Berkeley who may be able to interest you in joining. Ultimately, I would suggest getting to know the students on your campus and making friends as you get to know your new environment for the next few years.

APhiAnna · #5 02-22-2009, 02:05 PM

Knowing guys in the fraternity system at UCLA and UC Berkeley, I am not really sure if a PhD candidate would be admitted to a fraternity even if they were allowed to admit a graduate student (a lot aren't). And to be honest, I am not sure if somebody who is seriously pursuing a PhD would really want to be around a lot of 19 year old guys doing kegstands and dancing with freshmen girls.

That being said, especially at those two schools, Greek life is very integrated. There are some (not many) schools in America where race is still an issue, but in the vast majority of schools (and certainly the two you said you are considering) a student from any race and any socio-economic background would be able to get a bid (pending, of course, that they fit in with the particular chapter).

33girl · #6 02-22-2009, 04:07 PM

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Originally Posted by APhiAnna

Knowing guys in the fraternity system at UCLA and UC Berkeley, I am not really sure if a PhD candidate would be admitted to a fraternity even if they were allowed to admit a graduate student (a lot aren't).

Yeah, but if he has a cute British accent it might bring girls in. I would check it out.

Blue Skies · #7 02-22-2009, 04:18 PM

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Originally Posted by 33girl

Yeah, but if he has a cute British accent it might bring girls in. I would check it out.

Seriously!

I've known PhD candidates who have socialized with undergraduates. It's not completely uncommon for seniors to be taking graduate-level classes, anyway.

PrettyBoy · #8 02-23-2009, 02:02 AM

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Originally Posted by 33girl

Yeah, but if he has a cute British accent it might bring girls in. I would check it out.

LOL, a troll with a British accent...only on greekchat.

geryon · #9 02-22-2009, 04:11 PM

I am only 24, the PhD objective does not change my age. 24 is young! (I insist on it).

Hypothetically, a 24 y/o dating a 19 year old isnt 'weird'. UK undergrad is 3 years, MA 1 year. Theoretically, one can start a PhD at 22 here.

I have researched GL in both schools, UCLA has 1 (?) graduate fraternity, but obviously my distance means I can only get a snapshot of a perspective.

Related questions, can someone not start a BA course in the US in their latter 20's (for instance). When I was 18 and started college, my best mate was 24-a mature student. It wasnt an issue here, is US college life more compartmentalized?

33girl · #10 02-22-2009, 04:16 PM

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Originally Posted by geryon

Related questions, can someone not start a BA course in the US in their latter 20's (for instance). When I was 18 and started college, my best mate was 24-a mature student. It wasnt an issue here, is US college life more compartmentalized?

You can start college at any time, but if you start undergrad in your 20s you're more likely to hang out with a "returning students" group than join a fraternity.

A lot of it has to do w/ the drinking age here - in some states you can't even go in a bar until you are legal (21) and in all states, the drinking age is 21. It really does put up a line between underclassmen and seniors, much more now than it used to as the rules are enforced more strictly.

geryon · #11 02-22-2009, 04:20 PM

Damn.

We did, and do, grab drinks with our professors. I had a US History lecturer who was 29. He'd join us in the bar periodically.

No first name terms either I take it?

I dont get how the age of consent can be 16, you can join the army at 18, but have to be 21 to have a drink in a bar?

33girl · #12 02-22-2009, 04:25 PM

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Originally Posted by geryon

Damn.

We did, and do, grab drinks with our professors. I had a US History lecturer who was 29. He'd join us in the bar periodically.

No first name terms either I take it?

I dont get how the age of consent can be 16, you can join the army at 18, but have to be 21 to have a drink in a bar?

Ask the stupid hookers from MADD who got the law pushed through. There's actually going to be a piece tonight on 60 Minutes about the college professors who are trying to get the law repealed.

As for professors, I think that really depends on school and on what class it is.

AKA_Monet · #13 02-22-2009, 10:14 PM

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Originally Posted by 33girl

Ask the stupid hookers from MADD who got the law pushed through. There's actually going to be a piece tonight on 60 Minutes about the college professors who are trying to get the law repealed.

You know I remember when the law was phased in for all states. In the mid-80's, in California the law already change to 21. But in Hawaii, the law had not switched yet...

#14 02-22-2009, 10:19 PM

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Originally Posted by AKA_Monet

You know I remember when the law was phased in for all states. In the mid-80's, in California the law already change to 21. But in Hawaii, the law had not switched yet...

I was only in the first grade when that happened, so I don't know too much about it, but I was able to find this: http://query.nytimes.com/gst/fullpag...55C0A960948260

I didn't know that the DOT threatened to withdraw highway funds if we didn't raise the drinking age. We were in the beginning stages of building the H-3 back then, so I'm not surprised Ariyoshi gave in.

AKA_Monet · #15 02-22-2009, 10:28 PM

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Originally Posted by OTW

I was only in the first grade when that happened, so I don't know too much about it, but I was able to find this:

I didn't know that the DOT threatened to withdraw highway funds if we didn't raise the drinking age. We were in the beginning stages of building the H-3 back then, so I'm not surprised Ariyoshi gave in.

It was interesting because the group I was with at that time found out they could purchase liquor from the ABC stores and go to bars and order drinks. Since I was 17 years old, I could not do that...

Let's just say we ummmm we did a lot of McLovin...