GreekChat.com Forums  

Go Back   GreekChat.com Forums > Recruitment
Register FAQ Community Calendar Today's Posts Search

Recruitment General discussion about recruitment.


Register Now for FREE!
Join GreekChat.com, The Fraternity & Sorority Greek Chat Network. To sign up for your FREE account INSTANTLY fill out the form below!

Username: Password: Confirm Password: E-Mail: Confirm E-Mail:
 
Image Verification
Please enter the six letters or digits that appear in the image opposite.

  I agree to forum rules 

» GC Stats
Members: 325,453
Threads: 115,511
Posts: 2,196,571
Welcome to our newest member, zamesyandext578
» Online Users: 2,339
0 members and 2,339 guests
No Members online
Reply
 
Thread Tools Display Modes
  #16  
Old 02-12-2010, 04:23 PM
Barbie's_Rush Barbie's_Rush is offline
Banned
 
Join Date: Jun 2009
Location: The Madam Alexander House
Posts: 898
So I am assuming all of you who are wishing this chapter and GLO the best are in favor of admitting pre-op transgendered people into your GLO and your chapter?
Reply With Quote
Buy GreekChat a Coffee to help support this site, the community and the efforts that go into developing & keeping GC online. ( discuss )
  #17  
Old 02-12-2010, 06:06 PM
als463 als463 is offline
GreekChat Member
 
Join Date: Aug 2005
Posts: 2,636
Quote:
Originally Posted by Barbie's_Rush View Post
So I am assuming all of you who are wishing this chapter and GLO the best are in favor of admitting pre-op transgendered people into your GLO and your chapter?
Oh, def. not. I was saying I wish the chapter well, as in, hope they have great recruitment. In fact, I would not be welcoming to someone who was a pre-op transgendered person into my organization, as bad as that may sound.
Reply With Quote
  #18  
Old 02-12-2010, 06:11 PM
knight_shadow knight_shadow is offline
GreekChat Member
 
Join Date: Jan 2003
Location: Texas
Posts: 14,143
Quote:
Originally Posted by Barbie's_Rush View Post
So I am assuming all of you who are wishing this chapter and GLO the best are in favor of admitting pre-op transgendered people into your GLO and your chapter?
Quote:
Originally Posted by als463 View Post
Oh, def. not. I was saying I wish the chapter well, as in, hope they have great recruitment. In fact, I would not be welcoming to someone who was a pre-op transgendered person into my organization, as bad as that may sound.
Since when does "good luck" mean "please join my organization"?

Y'all are doing the most.
__________________
*does side bends and sit-ups*
*doesn't lose butt*

Reply With Quote
  #19  
Old 02-12-2010, 06:21 PM
als463 als463 is offline
GreekChat Member
 
Join Date: Aug 2005
Posts: 2,636
Quote:
Originally Posted by knight_shadow View Post
Since when does "good luck" mean "please join my organization"?

Y'all are doing the most.
Doing the most? What do you mean?

I meant "good luck" to this organization and I hope all works out for them. I didn't mean for anyone to think I was saying I would want that to happen with my GLO.
Reply With Quote
  #20  
Old 02-15-2010, 03:39 PM
xomanadaxo xomanadaxo is offline
GreekChat Member
 
Join Date: Jul 2009
Posts: 219
I never intended to express an opinion either way...sorry if it appeared otherwise! This is such a tricky issue...I'm still not entirely sure where I stand and therefore am in no position to take sides! I simply wish everyone the best of luck and hope those involved come to whatever decision is best for the chapter and individuals in question.
__________________

Let us strive for that which is honorable, beautiful and highest.
The content of this post represents the views of the author and does not necessarily reflect the views of Kappa Delta Sorority.


Last edited by xomanadaxo; 02-15-2010 at 03:40 PM. Reason: spelling
Reply With Quote
  #21  
Old 02-22-2010, 10:49 PM
MarleneB MarleneB is offline
GreekChat Member
 
Join Date: Feb 2010
Location: Bowling Green, OH
Posts: 1
ALS -- Why would you not welcome a transgender person to your GLO? Uncomfortable about personal grooming issues? Worried about being in states of undress in front of them?

Please remember that gender is between the *ears* and not the legs. They're just as much your gender as you are, dear.
Reply With Quote
  #22  
Old 02-22-2010, 10:58 PM
33girl 33girl is offline
Moderator
 
Join Date: Sep 2000
Location: Hotel Oceanview
Posts: 34,493
Quote:
Originally Posted by MarleneB View Post
ALS -- Why would you not welcome a transgender person to your GLO? Uncomfortable about personal grooming issues? Worried about being in states of undress in front of them?

Please remember that gender is between the *ears* and not the legs. They're just as much your gender as you are, dear.
Sorry to rain on your parade, but as far as legal issues are concerned (and this is a legal issue) gender IS between the legs. Once they're post-op and have driver's license, birth certificate etc changed over, they're welcome to join. The thing is that unless you started your journey at age 15 or so, there aren't going to be a lot of post-op people who are college age.
__________________
It is all 33girl's fault. ~DrPhil
Reply With Quote
  #23  
Old 02-22-2010, 11:05 PM
VandalSquirrel VandalSquirrel is offline
GreekChat Member
 
Join Date: Nov 2005
Posts: 3,945
Quote:
Originally Posted by 33girl View Post
Sorry to rain on your parade, but as far as legal issues are concerned (and this is a legal issue) gender IS between the legs. Once they're post-op and have driver's license, birth certificate etc changed over, they're welcome to join. The thing is that unless you started your journey at age 15 or so, there aren't going to be a lot of post-op people who are college age.
Not to mention the financial issues that face Trans people of all ages, let alone college students who may have lost any and all familial support, including health insurance and are barely able to afford food and a roof over their heads (if they aren't discriminated employment wise) let alone the cost of surgery and hormones.

33girl, some states, like the one I live in BOOOOOOO, do not allow a person to change their birth certificate. I find that so unacceptable and wish that the law would change.
Reply With Quote
  #24  
Old 04-27-2010, 10:31 PM
atoheadlines atoheadlines is offline
Banned
 
Join Date: Apr 2010
Posts: 41
Doesn't a transgender person go against the good morals that Fraternities and Sororities were founded under?
Reply With Quote
  #25  
Old 04-27-2010, 10:38 PM
33girl 33girl is offline
Moderator
 
Join Date: Sep 2000
Location: Hotel Oceanview
Posts: 34,493
Quote:
Originally Posted by atoheadlines View Post
Doesn't a transgender person go against the good morals that Fraternities and Sororities were founded under?
You really are an idiot. Do you even know what transgender means??
__________________
It is all 33girl's fault. ~DrPhil
Reply With Quote
  #26  
Old 04-28-2010, 01:08 AM
knight_shadow knight_shadow is offline
GreekChat Member
 
Join Date: Jan 2003
Location: Texas
Posts: 14,143
Quote:
Originally Posted by atoheadlines View Post
Doesn't a transgender person go against the good morals that Fraternities and Sororities were founded under?
How so? I want to see how your dumb ass tries to elaborate.
__________________
*does side bends and sit-ups*
*doesn't lose butt*

Reply With Quote
  #27  
Old 04-28-2010, 08:41 AM
MysticCat MysticCat is offline
GreekChat Member
 
Join Date: May 2002
Location: A dark and very expensive forest
Posts: 12,731
Quote:
Originally Posted by atoheadlines View Post
Doesn't a transgender person go against the good morals that Fraternities and Sororities were founded under?
Fraternities and Sororities were founded "under" morals? I'm trying to figure out how that works.
__________________
AMONG MEN HARMONY
1898
Reply With Quote
  #28  
Old 04-29-2010, 12:19 AM
atoheadlines atoheadlines is offline
Banned
 
Join Date: Apr 2010
Posts: 41
All of you get off it! Everyone of your founders would roll in their gaves if you were saying you accept a transgender person into the organization. This is why isn't one big group of coed, It was founded by men for men and women for women. Greek organizations were founded by Christian students. Every single organizations mentions God in something about them or why they were founded.
Reply With Quote
  #29  
Old 04-29-2010, 12:35 AM
33girl 33girl is offline
Moderator
 
Join Date: Sep 2000
Location: Hotel Oceanview
Posts: 34,493
Quote:
Originally Posted by atoheadlines View Post
All of you get off it! Everyone of your founders would roll in their graves if you were saying you accept a transgender person into the organization. This is why isn't one big group of coed, It was founded by men for men and women for women. Greek organizations were founded by Christian students. Every single organizations mentions God in something about them or why they were founded.
Again, do you understand what the term "transgender" means? I don't think you do.
__________________
It is all 33girl's fault. ~DrPhil
Reply With Quote
  #30  
Old 04-29-2010, 05:39 AM
knight_shadow knight_shadow is offline
GreekChat Member
 
Join Date: Jan 2003
Location: Texas
Posts: 14,143
Quote:
Originally Posted by atoheadlines View Post
All of you get off it! Everyone of your founders would roll in their gaves if you were saying you accept a transgender person into the organization. This is why isn't one big group of coed, It was founded by men for men and women for women. Greek organizations were founded by Christian students. Every single organizations mentions God in something about them or why they were founded.
Random undergraduate knows any and everything about everyone's' organizations. Nice.

I hope my founders (alive) don't roll in their gaves over this comment.

ETA:
__________________
*does side bends and sit-ups*
*doesn't lose butt*

Reply With Quote
Reply


Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off


Similar Threads
Thread Thread Starter Forum Replies Last Post
TRANSGENDER: NPHC and NALFO question Senusret I Greek Life 45 05-19-2012 02:36 PM
Obama Makes First Transgender Presidential Appointment DaemonSeid News & Politics 32 01-06-2010 09:48 AM
Sports Writer: "I'm Transgender" PeppyGPhiB News & Politics 7 05-01-2007 01:48 PM
What's Your Title CrimsonTide4 Delta Sigma Theta 33 05-09-2006 07:32 PM
What is the title of your Album NUPE4LIFE Alpha Kappa Alpha 23 04-17-2005 11:34 PM



All times are GMT -4. The time now is 06:55 AM.


Powered by vBulletin® Version 3.8.7
Copyright ©2000 - 2024, vBulletin Solutions, Inc.