Let me put this in perspective for you. Taking time to see if the chapter fits your personality is probably a good idea because once you make that decision, you are stuck with it. You will be paying dues and going to events even if the women in the chapter are totally not the type of women you would be friends with and you don't get along with any of them. Making the plunge head first has a lot of consequences. Usually for most groups, to get out of the chapter, you have to quit school or turn in your pin. Being deliberate makes a lot of sense. Not every chapter of a given sorority is the same. Many women happily transfer without a problem, but taking the time to assure a smooth transition seems to be the logical choice.
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