3 Questions about Rushing

[philly2008]

Hey guys I'm a freshman and I'm planning on rushing at my school. I had a few quick questions, sorry in advance if they're redundant, I'm new here. I tried searching for them but I couldn't find the answers so here they go:

1. What do you talk about at rush events? Is it like meeting when you meet anyone else? Can someone give me example topics of conversation (i.e. sports, clubs, intended major, parties etc.)

2. Is it ok to talk about stuff you did in high school? For example, I used to play in a rock/rap band. It was nothing serious, but should I bring it up?

3. When do you pay dues? Do you pay after you get your bid or once you're initiated? If I get dropped or drop out of my fraternity as a pledge do I get my money back?

4. Rush week is mid-January for me, should I start contacting the fraternities I'm interested in?

Yes, I realize this is 4 questions, not 3.