Missing a day of recruitment

[Lost421]

I'm a freshman at a small midwest school who has decided to go through informal spring rush. After going to the informational meetings I've narrowed my choices down to two sororities. The problem is that they both have their recruitment open parties on the same days and time.
I really like both and don't feel like I can make a decision just from the informational meetings.

Is it better to miss a day of recruitment (go to xyz's recruitment one day and abc's recruitment the next day)? Or is it better to go to both parties for half of the time? Hopefully after a day or two of recruitment I'll be able to decide which one I better fit in with.

[violetpretty]

Originally Posted by Lost421

I'm a freshman at a small midwest school who has decided to go through informal spring rush. After going to the informational meetings I've narrowed my choices down to two sororities. The problem is that they both have their recruitment open parties on the same days and time.
I really like both and don't feel like I can make a decision just from the informational meetings.

Is it better to miss a day of recruitment (go to xyz's recruitment one day and abc's recruitment the next day)? Or is it better to go to both parties for half of the time? Hopefully after a day or two of recruitment I'll be able to decide which one I better fit in with.

I'd go to both on one day, splitting the time evenly for the first parties. By the second ones, you might have a better idea of where you want to spend more of your time. Also, I don't know how many chapters are participating in informal, but if there are any of your "maybes" partcipating, I would check those out too.