These may not be what you are looking for for pre-initiation bonding, but they are good for sisterhood or COR as they are very girly-girl.
If you click on the individual parties from this link --
http://msnwomen.lhj.com/lhj/story.jh...xml&catref=S25 -- you will find details for each party including Invitations, Decorating, Favors
The Astrology Party
What do the stars have in store for you and your friends? Get together at your house and find out!
The Fashion Trade Party
Bought something and never wore it? Your fashion mistake could be somebody else's find. Bring your clothing bloopers, and trade up.
The Blot 'n Blab Party
Lipstick and literature are the stars at this party, where you discuss your favorite books and wear your most flattering lipstick, and are ready to share the names of both.
The Be a Bombshell Party
Invite your girlfriends to share secrets for bringing out your inner va-va-voom. Your Bible: The Bombshell Manual of Style by Laren Stover (Hyperion, 2001), a guide to being a total bombshell -- the kind of woman who "behaves as if life is a movie, and she is the star." It's a blast to be a bombshell!