Black Greeks.... - Page 4

rhoyaltempest · #46 06-27-2009, 02:03 PM

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Originally Posted by Psi U MC Vito

I would just like to say, I hate this kind of attitude. I hate people who think that because they are in one council that that type of organization is teh best. I also get annoyed at NIC orgs being refered to white orgs, but thats just me. Probbally just because I am latino and in a "white organization ", which is actually more diverse then any of the "Multicultural organization" on campus

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And some of us don't like being called "Black Greeks" but people will label you according to what they see.

Psi U MC Vito · #47 06-27-2009, 02:49 PM

that's true and I agree 100%. I'm on pretty good terms with the sigmas at my school, and one of their neos is as white as you can get. The only thing that should ever matter is the heart of the person involved, nothing else.

Pyramediator · #48 06-27-2009, 02:52 PM

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Originally Posted by SydneyK

Who ever said that parental support = parental bill-footing? Many people pay for their sorority/fraternity experience on their own - even those whose parents are/were supportive of their decision to join.

I agree. My parents totally supported my decision; however, I had to foot the bill for both Delta and OES....talk about broke!

BTW: CrazyLatina think long and hard about WHY you want to become a member of whichever org you are speaking of and talk to your friend...duh I mean she's a member so she can help you way more than we can!

IlovemyAKA · #49 06-27-2009, 08:46 PM

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Originally Posted by sigmadiva

QFP - there is so much wrong with this post beyond grammar and English, where does one begin?

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Originally Posted by CraziLatina12

I understand that yes if I decide to pledge I'm gonna get hazed...But how can I tell the person that is suppose to be my biggest supporter that this is something that I really like for you support me with....

How about here? lol

MexicanMami0286 · #50 06-28-2009, 09:26 PM

Wow...at this whole thread.

mccoyred · #51 06-28-2009, 10:24 PM

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Originally Posted by JustThinking

You guys are A$$HOLES.

Seriously, I hope you lame a$$es find solace in entertaining yourselves with people trying to get information from you, and you just spit in their faces... You should be ashamed of yourselves!!!

You have potential members on here... people who you NEED for this greek tradition to continue, and you make yourselves and your organizations look bad when you mock and harass people.

What happened to that sisterly and brotherly attitude that you are supposed to have? The helpful and assistant demeanor that is supposed to be the guiding light of your orgs? Or, do you only believe you have to respect people with letters? Tell me, are the people you serve out in the community any LESS important or less HUMAN than you are?

THIS IS a community service, to aid people with what you have gone through. They have the same questions you had before you were greek. Why can't anyone on here seem to realize that? it's one thing to just ignore someone's question, which I have seen. But to waste your time to criticize someone who wants to JOIN YOUR RANKS is just mindless.

If you want quality, knowledgable people, you are going to have to deal with QUESTIONS. No one goes out and buys something or invests time into something without attempting to have their fears calmed and their hopes assured that they are going to make the right choice, especially something as masked as greek life.

So I hope greeks on here remember the time, the time when they were scared, questionable, and anxious non-greeks, who honestly searched for brother/sister-hood and understand that the questions posed on here are, for the most part, legitimate, and deserve a respectful and guiding answer. I know, for at least the BGLOs, that this mission (to serve the community with dignity and respect for all people) should be the staple of your lives. This should be exercised whether in real life or the digital community.

***This message is not for people who genuinely answer questions and understand the worries of the non-greek. Thank you for educating the members and guests on this website.***

Last time I checked, NONE of the NPHC orgs was hurting for members. So kindly &^%# off.

&^%# = step

afRHOcentric · #52 11-30-2009, 10:22 PM

this is the definition of "a mess of a post." on all sides.

1. i agree, greeks have the obligation to give advice and help when needed...then encourage an aspirant to TALK TO ACTUAL PEOPLE. anybody could be telling you lies on the computer.
2. there's a lot of attitude! it's really not that serious or any of you
3. this old post needs to be CLOSED!

KSUViolet06 · #53 11-30-2009, 10:27 PM

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Originally Posted by afRHOcentric

this is the definition of "a mess of a post." on all sides.

1. i agree, greeks have the obligation to give advice and help when needed...then encourage an aspirant to TALK TO ACTUAL PEOPLE. anybody could be telling you lies on the computer.
2. there's a lot of attitude! it's really not that serious or any of you
3. this old post needs to be CLOSED!

Holy thread from 6 months ago that no one cares about, Batman!

knight_shadow · #54 11-30-2009, 10:27 PM

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Originally Posted by afRHOcentric

this is the definition of "a mess of a post." on all sides.

1. i agree, greeks have the obligation to give advice and help when needed...then encourage an aspirant to TALK TO ACTUAL PEOPLE. anybody could be telling you lies on the computer.
2. there's a lot of attitude! it's really not that serious or any of you
3. this old post needs to be CLOSED!

But you resurrected it...

afRHOcentric · #55 11-30-2009, 10:37 PM

i'm new! let me play! :-)

dreamseeker · #56 12-01-2009, 01:14 AM

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Originally Posted by mccoyred

Last time I checked, NONE of the NPHC orgs was hurting for members. So kindly &^%# off.

&^%# = step

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Originally Posted by KSUViolet06

Holy thread from 6 months ago that no one cares about, Batman!

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Originally Posted by afRHOcentric

i'm new! let me play! :-)

ctfu!

IlovemyAKA · #57 12-01-2009, 09:04 PM

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Originally Posted by afRHOcentric

i'm new! let me play! :-)

There's a difference between playing and resurrecting threads to complain about the lack of spoon-feeding.

IlovemyAKA · #58 12-01-2009, 09:08 PM

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Originally Posted by afRHOcentric

I was welcomed into the sisterhood on November 6th, 2009. Neophyte!

lol--nevermind. I'm only a couple of years old, but I know how it is. If only people could've seen me my 1st month in those "future AKA" groups trying to give advice. Eventually, you'll see enough posts & start to join the snarkiness.

Little32 · #59 12-01-2009, 09:22 PM

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Originally Posted by IlovemyAKA

lol--nevermind. I'm only a couple of years old, but I know how it is. If only people could've seen me my 1st month in those "future AKA" groups trying to give advice. Eventually, you'll see enough posts & start to join the snarkiness.

Lol. After the way that I saw other aspirants flayed, I did not dare ask a question on the internet. It was a good year or so after I decided that "AKA was the only way" that I even got up the courage to talk to a member IRL about the sorority. I tell you, if folks are crying about these responses....

AXiDMeesh · #60 12-01-2009, 09:26 PM

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Originally Posted by Little32

Lol. After the way that I saw other aspirants flayed, I did not dare ask a question on the internet.

MEE TOO!! haha I was afraid to ask even the tiniest thing, and when I pm'ed someone (who is now my sister) I was terrified lol