NHPC sororities. How did you choose which to pleadge for?

.... · #1 03-23-2008, 11:02 PM

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tld221 · #2 03-23-2008, 11:31 PM

Please use the search function and read the sticky threads at the top of each NPHC forum. As you will find, membership-related questions will not be answered. To get an understanding on why particular GC members chose their organization, again, use the search function.

sigh, can someone make ME a mod?

AKA_Monet · #3 03-23-2008, 11:38 PM

I can only state something trite and flippant--but I will try very hard to refrain and live and let live. Maybe I can ignore it and it will go away!

AKA_Monet · #4 03-23-2008, 11:39 PM

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Originally Posted by tld221

Please use the search function and read the sticky threads at the top of each NPHC forum. As you will find, membership-related questions will not be answered. To get an understanding on why particular GC members chose their organization, again, use the search function.

sigh, can someone make ME a mod?

You need a supermod to handle this

I would not want her searching anything in our forum. Because you can see she will NEVER understand it--it still will go over her head.

.... · #5 03-24-2008, 12:31 AM

First off, I am considering everything that they are saying because they have already been through this process. It just seems like I have to be very defensive and careful in everything that I say

AKA_Monet · #6 03-24-2008, 12:34 AM

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First off, I am considering everything that they are saying because they have already been through this process. It just seems like I have to be very defensive and careful in everything that I say

Or be wise and not say anything, read, learn, search... And when you have anything of substance to discuss, it will be uttered with wisdom and have astuteness to have question worthy of all our efforts.

AKA_Monet · #7 03-24-2008, 12:04 AM

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And actually, I understand everything that I have read so far, I am not looking for anyone to point me in the right direction. I would like to have the ability to point myself in the right direction and just need a little assistance by example in seeing how others handled the situation. I don't want to know anything about membership intake, pledging, meaning of letters, or anything of that sort.... which seems to be the root of questions that will NEVER be answered and I understand why.

The title of this thread says "pleadge"--obviously that is Membership Intake in NPHC language. The NPHC Sororities do not discuss membership intake on GC. There are reasons why we do not/cannot/will not.

Now there are MYRIADS of "how did you choose which one" threads on GC. Search is your friend. Do one. When you post such questions, I feel it is laziness and uncaring about what my Sorority is all about.

When you post such questions after we have clearly stated what we will do, I feel it is beyond ignorance it is being trite, uncouth and belittling to me, my Sorors, my Sorority sisters and my fellow GLO's.

I am sorry, but based on your continuance of this course of action, please, I beg you, do not choose my Sorority, you will not enjoy it and do not have to constitution for it. Maybe you fit in some other group--just not a sorority.

LatinaAlumna · #8 03-24-2008, 12:03 AM

If you're having a hard time choosing which organization to pursue, you're not ready.

tld221 · #9 03-24-2008, 01:07 AM

So, that's 4 different members in 3 different councils telling you the SAME THING.

LatinaAlumna · #10 03-24-2008, 01:14 AM

Wow, "..." the more you post, the more I see that you don't know much about sororities at all!

You say that legacies don't have to go through the same decision-making process you do? I've never heard (or read on GC) of a legacy who didn't explore all her options in depth before making a decision like this. In fact, there are lots of ladies on GC who did not pursue membership in the organization that they are a legacy to.

You are making a lot of assumptions about sororities and sorority members. I think you need to continue searching for knowledge on these topics. There is no way you could have possibly exhausted all avenues of information. Shoot, I have been a member of my sorority for 12 years, and I STILL learn new, wonderful things about it each year!

tld221 · #11 03-24-2008, 01:30 AM

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exactally... you are a MEMBER and are continuing to learn.... I am not given the same information because I am not a MEMBER

RIGHT so refrain from using "soror." thanks!

LatinaAlumna · #12 03-24-2008, 01:25 AM

NON PAN-HELLENIC COUNCILS?

Oh my gosh! Couldn't you even GOOGLE to get the right answer for that, ...?

tld221 · #13 03-24-2008, 01:29 AM

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NON PAN-HELLENIC COUNCILS?

Oh my gosh! Couldn't you even GOOGLE to get the right answer for that, ...?

there's not enough information out here. Didnt she tell you she exhausted all her resources?

tld221 · #14 03-24-2008, 01:38 AM

::: hoping some of sistergreek ladygreek's niceness rubs off on me before daybreak :::

Velocity_14 · #15 03-24-2008, 01:40 AM

This may be an appropriate time to give "....." the cure.....