Awesome, those are some new twists on games our chapter has used for a while. I pass them along and maybe the CR chair can use them to change things up a little bit.
We had a game just lke "I'm a nerd and so are you" but it was called "I love my sister who" For example "I love my sister who is wearing flip flops"
We also used to have a think similar to your alpha hour we called "pass the panda" but I like the candle idea.
Thanks for the ideas!!
Roses,
S