1. This all depends. Are the events you're going to invite only or open to everyone? If they're invite only, there's nothing wrong with saying that you really would like to be a sister. If it's open to everyone, something along the lines of "I feel really comfortable here" is more appropriate.
2. BE YOURSELF. COB is much more relaxed (or should be) - go with that. Compliment the sisters - I don't mean empty compliments, but if someone strikes you as the most hilarious thing since Tina Fey or you really like her shoes, say so.
3. This varies from school to school, chapter to chapter, and situation to situation. If a chapter only has room for 2 girls it's really unlikely they're going to have a ton of events.
4. If this is something this sorority does regularly - it sounds like it's a lameass way of saying "we're not interested in you" without actually telling you. Forget them.
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