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Old 01-16-2013, 04:24 PM
I Phi 1963 I Phi 1963 is offline
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THAT'S what you call "high as hell" standards?? THOSE requirements are too high for you?! Wow. I'm cracking up over here. I knew we were opposite on relationship views but that's just...wow. Haha WOW.
They are high as hell. But they're not just too high for me, they're obviously too high for you too, because you are single as haaayle LOL! You should send AGDee a private message and ask her does Booger got any friends she can hook you up with, that might be your best bet. CTFU!!!

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Which is why I've NEVER said that. We've had this conversation too many times--no cookie for you.
Girl please, up in here contradicting yourself LOL.
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Old 01-16-2013, 06:07 PM
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They are way too high for men who don't want what you want out of a relationship. But rather than admit I can't understand your perspective, I'm going to continue judging you wrongly because my brain can't fathom a woman who not only won't settle but is single AND happy at the same time.
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Old 01-17-2013, 12:15 PM
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LOL that's good shit, but everybody wants somebody to kick it with though.
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Old 01-17-2013, 02:38 PM
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everybody wants somebody to kick it with though.
Assuming that you mean "everyone wants to be in a relationship and no one wants to stay single", this is so not true.
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Old 01-17-2013, 03:04 PM
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Assuming that you mean "everyone wants to be in a relationship and no one wants to stay single", this is so not true.
I think it is to some degree. Nobody wants to be lonely as hell.
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Old 01-17-2013, 03:22 PM
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I think it is to some degree. Nobody wants to be lonely as hell.
Single =/= lonely
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Old 01-17-2013, 07:09 PM
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I think it is to some degree. Nobody wants to be lonely as hell.
The bells are ringing, the lights are flashing, and the gates are down, but there's no train coming.

I honestly really don't believe you know what "loneliness" is. True loneliness is not the absence of a woman or a man, but the absence of God. Your capacity to love the mate God has given you (Brandi) will only match how you are able to love Him. If you are not transparent with God, you will not be able to be transparent with your mate.

You also still continue to place a lot of emphasis on sex. Based on your posts here, you plan to marry soon, and if you think sex/"effing like rabbits" is going to be what keeps the foundation of your marriage together, think again. God made sex for beauty, intimacy, and worship, but society as a whole has cheapened it to lust, perversion, and ugliness, and based on your many posts about sex, this seems to be the crowd you fall into.

Whether someone lands the gift of singleness forever or eventually trades it in for the gift of marriage, the key to enjoying whichever you presently own is simply recognizing the value. Whether or not you realize the significance of the gift you have will make a huge difference in how you treat it. If you were lonely as a single man, you will be lonely after you make those vows to Brandi.
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Old 01-17-2013, 08:00 PM
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Old 01-17-2013, 11:27 PM
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The bells are ringing, the lights are flashing, and the gates are down, but there's no train coming.

I honestly really don't believe you know what "loneliness" is. True loneliness is not the absence of a woman or a man, but the absence of God. Your capacity to love the mate God has given you (Brandi) will only match how you are able to love Him. If you are not transparent with God, you will not be able to be transparent with your mate.

You also still continue to place a lot of emphasis on sex. Based on your posts here, you plan to marry soon, and if you think sex/"effing like rabbits" is going to be what keeps the foundation of your marriage together, think again. God made sex for beauty, intimacy, and worship, but society as a whole has cheapened it to lust, perversion, and ugliness, and based on your many posts about sex, this seems to be the crowd you fall into.

Whether someone lands the gift of singleness forever or eventually trades it in for the gift of marriage, the key to enjoying whichever you presently own is simply recognizing the value. Whether or not you realize the significance of the gift you have will make a huge difference in how you treat it. If you were lonely as a single man, you will be lonely after you make those vows to Brandi.
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I think it is to some degree. Nobody wants to be lonely as hell.
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Old 01-18-2013, 10:24 AM
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CTFU! Y'all are over here trippin...

I'm done fuckn with y'all LOL! Y'all do shit like you like it, and I'll do mine.
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Old 01-19-2013, 10:37 AM
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I just got an email from OKCupid about a new service they have called Crazy Blind Date. Here is the pitch:

We just launched a new dating app! Crazy Blind Date is the easiest and fastest way to go on dates. You just tell us when and where you’d like to go, and we set you up. With just a few taps, you could have dates every night of the week.

I think they call it Crazy because you have to be crazy to do this with no screening of people whatsoever. Hell no!
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Old 01-19-2013, 02:48 PM
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CTFU! Y'all are over here trippin...

I'm done fuckn with y'all LOL! Y'all do shit like you like it, and I'll do mine.


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I think they call it Crazy because you have to be crazy to do this with no screening of people whatsoever. Hell no!
Isn't that what a blind date is? Though usually it's set up by a mutual friend, so you have their approval to consider.



I'll pass on it too.
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Old 01-19-2013, 04:52 PM
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With a regular blind date, yes, you have a mutual friend or something who knows both of you so if he turns out to be a homicidal rapist or something, someone knows who the guy is.
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Old 01-22-2013, 06:37 AM
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LOL I feel you. She's all up into her dude, but then turns around and says being single is just as tight as being coupled up. I'll bet she wouldn't go back to being single LOL. That's why I didn't even respond to her post. It's all good, because my post still stands. If being single didn't turn into being lonely as hell, then folks wouldn't be out looking for companionship. Females always try to use that as an excuse as of why they are single. Every single female who regularly post over here is either out looking for a dude or wants a dude to find them. How can you be single and happy, but are steady up in here looking for companionship? She brought God into the picture. That's why God made a female and a dude. He made them for each other, the very reason why nobody likes being without a mate.




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With a regular blind date, yes, you have a mutual friend or something who knows both of you so if he turns out to be a homicidal rapist or something, someone knows who the guy is.
LOL you are paranoid as hayle!
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Old 01-22-2013, 05:58 PM
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LOL you are paranoid as hayle!
No, she's not. Women typically have to act more cautiously in our dating behavior than men do. Your chances of going on a blind date with a homocidal rapist are a lot lower than ours so it's understandable why you'd have trouble seeing why more precautions than random hookup on the internet seem necessary. I hate to pull the gender card but it is what it is.
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