Before You Found a New Sorority - Page 8

thetaj · #**106** 05-17-2011, 12:30 AM

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Originally Posted by Kaorin_Kanoe

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scooby doo saying "uh-oh"

Kaorin_Kanoe · #**107** 05-17-2011, 12:34 AM

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Originally Posted by thetaj

scooby doo saying "uh-oh"

Oh, I see...but....I still never got my answer...

33girl · #**108** 05-17-2011, 01:46 AM

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Originally Posted by Kaorin_Kanoe

Oh, I see...but....I still never got my answer...

Are you fucking kidding me?

If you didn't want to stay with KBG for the long haul, why did your chapter colonize with them?? Why didn't you stay local? If you weren't allowed to stay local, why did you just use them to stay recognized on campus?

I sincerely hope this is only coming from your head and is not representative of the rest of your chapter sisters. If it is only coming from your head, you probably need to resign as soon as possible.

P.S. There are members of your national board who post here occasionally. You might want to scale back the word vomit.

Kaorin_Kanoe · #**109** 05-17-2011, 02:02 AM

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Originally Posted by 33girl

Are you fucking kidding me?

If you didn't want to stay with KBG for the long haul, why did your chapter colonize with them?? Why didn't you stay local? If you weren't allowed to stay local, why did you just use them to stay recognized on campus?

I sincerely hope this is only coming from your head and is not representative of the rest of your chapter sisters. If it is only coming from your head, you probably need to resign as soon as possible.

P.S. There are members of your national board who post here occasionally. You might want to scale back the word vomit.

Don't' curse at me, Rude Ass Bitch. You have no idea what my sisters go through on a daily basis trying to get girls to to join our sorority. I was only asking a damn question so that I could help my sisters. Who said I was using them? And you call yourself a moderator? Fuck you and fuck this website.

Drolefille · #**110** 05-17-2011, 02:12 AM

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Originally Posted by Kaorin_Kanoe

Don't' curse at me, Rude Ass Bitch. You have no idea what my sisters go through on a daily basis trying to get girls to to join our sorority. I was only asking a damn question so that I could help my sisters. Who said I was using them? And you call yourself a moderator? Fuck you and fuck this website.

Oh well that didn't take long.

Kaorin_Kanoe · #**111** 05-17-2011, 02:14 AM

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Originally Posted by Drolefille

Oh well that didn't take long.

And...who the hell was talking to you???

tosfadKBG · #**112** 05-17-2011, 02:14 AM

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Originally Posted by Kaorin_Kanoe

Don't' curse at me, Rude Ass Bitch. You have no idea what my sisters go through on a daily basis trying to get girls to to join our sorority. I was only asking a damn question so that I could help my sisters. Who said I was using them? And you call yourself a moderator? Fuck you and fuck this website.

Oh. Wow.

33girl · #**113** 05-17-2011, 02:15 AM

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Originally Posted by Kaorin_Kanoe

Don't curse at me, Rude Ass Bitch. You have no idea what my sisters go through on a daily basis trying to get girls to to join our sorority. I was only asking a damn question so that I could help my sisters. Who said I was using them? And you call yourself a moderator? Fuck you and fuck this website.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=17eSUnQ-_ek

If your chapter colonized with KBG only to stay on/get on campus, and are willing to dump them at the drop of a hat for an NPC group, that pretty much is the definition of "using."

If you as an individual don't like the fact that your sorority is non-NPC, and are using it as an excuse for poor rush results, you probably need to resign as soon as possible.

xoxo,
Rude Ass Bitch

tosfadKBG · #**114** 05-17-2011, 02:24 AM

Hello,

I just wanted to clarify what she meant. We weren't using KBG to get on campus, we were a campus recognized organization before we were KBG. At the time, our founders did seek national status, but at the time did not have the requirements to become an NPC organization (obviously.) They sought recognition by another NPC organization, but that also didn't work out. All our founders wanted was national recognition with a sorority that held similar ideals. Then they found Kappa Beta Gamma. The #1 reason why girls at our school don't want to join us is because because they know we're not an NPC organization on our campus, as opposed to DZ, AST, and ASA (who just came to our campus a year ago). While we love our chapter, and we all worked hard to get where we are, our time on our campus is questionable. While I'm not personally sure about the idea of being absorbed, I can understand her frustration.

Kaorin_Kanoe · #**115** 05-17-2011, 02:25 AM

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Originally Posted by 33girl

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=17eSUnQ-_ek

If your chapter colonized with KBG only to stay on/get on campus, and are willing to dump them at the drop of a hat for an NPC group, that pretty much is the definition of "using."

If you as an individual don't like the fact that your sorority is non-NPC, and are using it as an excuse for poor rush results, you probably need to resign as soon as possible.

xoxo,
Rude Ass Bitch

Maaaaaaan, get your dumbass video outta here!

1) My sorority had been local years before they picked KBG. And don't bring my other sisters into this because like I said from the beginning, I REALLY DIDN'T KNOW! I mean, Phi Mu came to our school last year with the intention of colonizing. But we're still here as KBG so we're not using anyone.

2) You're making up things that aren't even there. What organization is going to colonize with my sisters just because one person wants it? You probably come from some sorority with like 150 girls in your cutesy sorority house and Barbie dream cars. Bitch, outta my face. I work hard for my girls and I want them to have what rightly belongs to them. People who are already sitting under the big beach umbrella that is NPC wouldn't understand. Isn't your job as a moderator to make sure that I get my questions answered? All I wanted was a simple question answered. So thanks for nothing, Rude Ass Bitch.

Drolefille · #**116** 05-17-2011, 02:26 AM

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Originally Posted by Kaorin_Kanoe

And...who the hell was talking to you???

Drolefille · #**117** 05-17-2011, 02:29 AM

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Originally Posted by Kaorin_Kanoe

Maaaaaaan, get your dumbass video outta here!

1) My sorority had been local years before they picked KBG. And don't bring my other sisters into this because like I said from the beginning, I REALLY DIDN'T KNOW! I mean, Phi Mu came to our school last year with the intention of colonizing. But we're still here as KBG so we're not using anyone.

2) You're making up things that aren't even there. What organization is going to colonize with my sisters just because one person wants it? You probably come from some sorority with like 150 girls in your cutesy sorority house and Barbie dream cars. Bitch, outta my face. I work hard for my girls and I want them to have what rightly belongs to them. People who are already sitting under the big beach umbrella that is NPC wouldn't understand. Isn't your job as a moderator to make sure that I get my questions answered? All I wanted was a simple question answered. So thanks for nothing, Rude Ass Bitch.

LOL

I kind of think she actually was asking.

33girl · #**118** 05-17-2011, 02:37 AM

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Originally Posted by Kaorin_Kanoe

Maaaaaaan, get your dumbass video outta here!

1) My sorority had been local years before they picked KBG. And don't bring my other sisters into this because like I said from the beginning, I REALLY DIDN'T KNOW! I mean, Phi Mu came to our school last year with the intention of colonizing. But we're still here as KBG so we're not using anyone.

2) You're making up things that aren't even there. What organization is going to colonize with my sisters just because one person wants it? You probably come from some sorority with like 150 girls in your cutesy sorority house and Barbie dream cars. Bitch, outta my face. I work hard for my girls and I want them to have what rightly belongs to them. People who are already sitting under the big beach umbrella that is NPC wouldn't understand. Isn't your job as a moderator to make sure that I get my questions answered? All I wanted was a simple question answered. So thanks for nothing, Rude Ass Bitch.

There are so many ROFLWAFFLES in this post I don't even know where to begin.

My job as a moderator is to moderate specific forums...not to help you find a way to dump your sorority for something brighter and shinier.

Phi Mu was going to colonize with another local sorority. It had NOTHING to do with your local or KBG.

"What rightly belongs to them"? What the heck does that mean?

I'm sorry you have issues with girls wanting an NPC, but for lack of a better way to put it...you (your sisters who chose to colonize with KBG you) made your bed, so lie in it. Perhaps they should have done a little more research and held out for an NPC group. That doesn't mean it's cool to dump KBG though. It's not. They are a national sorority even if they're not NPC. (You might want to ask the school to take that little asterisk off the website...it's blatantly discriminatory).

You are TOTALLY right about the Barbie dream cars and giant gorgeous house though!!!

Now it's time for me to go tan and then figure out which Prada purse to carry tomorrow.

tosfadKBG · #**119** 05-17-2011, 02:43 AM

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preciousjeni · #**120** 05-17-2011, 08:02 AM

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Originally Posted by Kaorin_Kanoe

I work hard for my girls and I want them to have what rightly belongs to them. People who are already sitting under the big beach umbrella that is NPC wouldn't understand.

Ahem. If I may interject... I'm in a small, national sorority whose chapters range from around 2-10 members each. If you don't want to be a member of your organization anymore, don't be. But, don't "blame" your organization's non-NPC status for your lack of interest.

If a woman wants to join an NPC organization, then she probably shouldn't look into your sorority and end up disappointed. If you aren't finding interested women, it's because you're not looking hard enough, representing your organization proudly enough, and/or personally connecting with women who might be interested.

Based on your attitude, I wouldn't want to be your sister.