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Old 10-05-2015, 05:39 PM
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"PAPER" VS. "MADE" BGLO

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Old 10-05-2015, 05:59 PM
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To anyone who can answer my question with sincerity,

I am a college student and I feel this year is the right time for me to express my interest in the BGLO that I have longed for since I was a little girl. However, recently, I have heard that the chapter at my school was "paper". I pray I am considered and if I am I do not want to just sign my name to join, I want to EARN my letters.

Now, my intentions are in no way to disrespect BGLOs, this prestigious organization, or the chapter on my campus, but I honestly know in my heart that I want to go through the same process (or most similar to) that of women in previous decades "underground pledging". This is very serious to me and you may say, "Why would you want to endure this?". Honestly, I believe in the tradition and culture of pledging into BGLOs and to know after I cross that I WORKED hard to be in this organization means so much to me. The emotion and passion behind it is unimaginable for me right now because I am not Greek, but I want that feeling after I cross.

I mentioned earlier, that I have heard the chapter at my school is "paper". I know that I want to join in UNDERGRAD ONLY because of the visions and goals that I have for this organization immediately after joining? Do you think that I have chance of being made by members of this organization, whether it be that I contact members of this organization that I know are made to visit during MIP, or any other suggestion/advice that you have? Is there anyone solution to my "paper" vs. "made" problem? If you do not want to post your answer to the public PLEASE email me at [redacted].
OMG you said all that and then ended with your email address?

This can't be for real.
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Old 10-05-2015, 06:04 PM
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It isn't attached to my identity. It's fine.
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Old 10-05-2015, 08:16 PM
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You have no business in anyone's sorority. You are already intending to be disloyal to the rules of the organization. You are already shitting on the chapter on your campus because they are upstanding ladies who believe that service is more important than prestige. Like really, how dare you. I hope you apply for membership and are rejected.
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