Welcome to GreekChat, Violet08!
I hope you find a lot of good advice and friends here - there are a LOT of chapters respresented, and of course, what works for one chapter may not work for another. If you take a look at the top threads, you might want to tell us what chapter you're at, and some things like that - so chapters around the same style may better help you.
But mostly, sisters will PM you with help. This Forum is open to ALL people in sororities, and while we're all for acting Panhellenic, that stops at Recruitment!
So, enjoy, good luck with Recruitment!