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Old 10-14-2020, 06:15 PM
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Some PNMs are so fabulous that I think they get dropped because everybody thought their sorority would never have a chance with her.
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Old 10-20-2020, 09:32 AM
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Some PNMs are so fabulous that I think they get dropped because everybody thought their sorority would never have a chance with her.
This too.

A lot of "She is not going to return here, her sister is DG." Or "Her mom is AZD, she's probably not interested in us."

I always try to remind collegians that connections are not always an indicator of interest. You never know how connected that PNM is to a sorority.

Ex: Yeah she may have an AZD aunt who wrote her a rec but sometimes it's just a courtesy and that PNM has no preference for AZD above any other chapter. Or an Alpha Chi Omega . grandma but they really just found out and it has no prevalence in the PNM's life.

That's different from say, a PNM whose mother is a former DZ chapter advisor and who grew up at sorority events. Different connection levels.

Many times, PNMs ARE legit trying to be open-minded because knowing someone is a XXXXX alumna on paper has no bearing on their decisions.
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Old 10-20-2020, 03:33 PM
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This too.


Many times, PNMs ARE legit trying to be open-minded because knowing someone is a XXXXX alumna on paper has no bearing on their decisions.
Misread this as a Chi Chi Chi Chi Chi alumna and just for a second was trying to figure out what sororities used 5 letters...
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Old 03-27-2021, 08:48 AM
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Some PNMs are so fabulous that I think they get dropped because everybody thought their sorority would never have a chance with her.

You mean like how some women will preemptively drop men because they figure they're too good to be true?
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Old 03-29-2021, 06:46 PM
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You mean like how some women will preemptively drop men because they figure they're too good to be true?
Something like that...
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Old 03-29-2021, 07:02 PM
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You mean like how some women will preemptively drop men because they figure they're too good to be true?
That's the thought that crossed my mind when I first met you!
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Old 04-08-2021, 11:03 PM
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That's the thought that crossed my mind when I first met you!

I picked the wrong sister. If I could do it over...
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Old 04-10-2021, 07:08 PM
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I picked the wrong sister. If I could do it over...

LOL...oh Jon....
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