Originally Posted by DeltaBetaBaby
I love watching probate videos.
So, if I can ask, it's a surprise to the spectators exactly who is on the line, right? How do you make sure your friends/family/other loved ones are there if you aren't allowed to tell them you are on the line?
As it was told to me years ago:
Discretion doesn't mean don't tell anybody anything. Discretion means effectively deciding who needs to know what and when.