Originally Posted by christiangirl
If a man treats me too buddy-buddy, then my interest dies. Maybe it's because I think my feelings for him won't be returned so he's less appealing. But I do know that a man starting to relax a bit after we've know each other awhile is a sign that he's getting comfortable with me (not to be confused with just getting lazy, that looks a little differently). But to be that lax from the beginning doesn't say "I'm comfortable with you." It says "I don't have to show you the best of me because you're my homegirl." There are other ways to end up in the friend zone but those are the main2 for me.
So so so agree!! That's the other guy thing that drives me nuts - "if she was really looking for a solid relationship she wouldn't care how I dress/what I drive/if I shave etc etc etc." Yet if I didn't show up nicely dressed, perfumed and made up, he'd say I was a slob. No you don't have to go full out metrosexual, but for the love of all that's holy, wear something on the date other than your work polo shirt with the company logo on it. I cared enough to bring different clothes along and change, you should too.
p.s.: I don't really care what a guy drives, but you probably should clean the crap off the seat before I sit in it.