The good news is it sounds like your chapter is doing a great job with you and trying their best not to overwhelm. They may be failing at that, but at least they're trying!
Do reach out to your pledge sisters. It may be a small group, but all the more reason to hang on to each other. And life lesson #486, you will be making those awkward, hey, I'm DubaiSis and I'm in your pledge class. Want to go to coffee? conversations a lot in your life. Getting more comfortable with it now is a good thing.
"Protect your dignity." Mariam Behnam