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AlwaysSAI · #**2416** Today, 01:53 AM

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Originally Posted by KSUViolet06

I'm confused.

He had a work-related issue (forcing him to changing your dinner plans) and you are so mad that you turn off your phone?

No, no. I turned my phone off to watch the movie. It's one I've been wanting to see & didn't want to be disturbed. I loooove movies, so I hate it when phone calls interrupt them.

Oddly enough, I fell asleep about 20 minutes in.

AGDee · #**2417** Today, 09:43 PM

So, it's over for now. He admitted that he just doesn't have time to put into a relationship. He said he wanted me to know that I'm very special to him and that's why he tried so hard to hang on for so long but he knows he's had me on a roller coaster, that it's unfair to me and he had to admit that he can't do it right now. I suggested that if he'd let me integrate more into his life things could have worked and he said it just all came down on him too fast, before we could really get comfortable as a couple. We talked that perhaps in April, when hockey is done, we will try again and see if we can reach that point where we can be "real" with each other and integrate each other into our lives more before hockey season starts up again. We'd have about 6 months to see if we could get there. You know, get to the comfort zone where you don't feel like you have to have your house clean, be at "your best" to hang out together. He said he's definitely not deleting me from his phone or e-mail. I told him that I don't see jumping into a relationship any time soon so if he does find that he has a lull and wants to go out for drinks or something, I'd be open to that. So, that's where we are now.

christiangirl · #**2418** Today, 09:54 PM

Now that graduation is next month, I have no choice but to focus and, even though I'm exhausted, at least my head is screwed back on and for that I'm grateful. I still think of him every day, but not every second of everyday anymore. Thank God, that was getting annoying.

dreamseeker · #**2419** Today, 10:00 PM

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Originally Posted by christiangirl

Thank God, that was getting annoying.

i know that feeling. it really is annoying.

AGDee · #**2420** Today, 10:17 PM

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Originally Posted by christiangirl

Now that graduation is next month, I have no choice but to focus and, even though I'm exhausted, at least my head is screwed back on and for that I'm grateful. I still think of him every day, but not every second of everyday anymore. Thank God, that was getting annoying.

How long did that take?