Phi Mu Sweetheart

[PM_Mama00]

Ok. I know a lot of other chapters have a Phi Mu Sweetheart. We don't do one because we're not allowed to... I guess Nationally. Our chapter really follows the rules almost to a T. How do you get around having a Phi Mu Sweetheart? Is it really against National? Cuz I've seen websites that feature their sweetheart and these websites are linked to the National site. I'm just wondering cuz I would like to bring it up again to our President/Eboard and I need some things to back up my opinion, but unfortunately I don't know the whole rule on including boys in chapter things.