[StealthMode]

I've learned the hard way to ask the "obvious" questions before even getting started. I should have to ask someone if he is still married but a lot of men have a "don't ask don't tell" policy.

Same with being biologically male. Apparently, certain individuals will not say anything and just hope that's not a requirement for you...again, learned the hard way. And yes, that won the award for "Awkward Conversation of the Year."