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Originally Posted by drewlong19
The organization I am interested in hosted a secret interest meeting which I was not invited to. I was wondering if you guys could touch on. I am a senior at my university and always wanted to pledge Alpha phi Alpha. I was preparing myself mentally over summer for it and everything just looking forward to it. Nobody on campus knew that I wanted to pledge bc I kept it well discreet.
School starts and I am keeping my eye out for flyers regarding the interest meeting. A few days go by and I hear from a friend that they ALREADY had an interest meeting but I didnt see one flyer up anywhere and believe me I was looking hard! Does this mean they only invited certain people to the interest meeting and did not want the campus to know about it?
After missing the interest meeting I contacted some of the bros I'm cool with to see if theres anything I could do but they never respond to my questions. By them ignoring me I guess that means they dont want me?
I just dont know what to do because I have a 3+GPA, involved around campus, and definitely have a positive reputation for being a cool dude on campus so this just hurts. I know I would of stood out at the interest meeting if I knew about it and was able to attend.
Should I continue to try to contact the members of the organization or just take it as if they do not want me? I do not want to come off as annoying or like a peasant by asking them if its too late to get on line or what.
This all happened within 5 days so I know it cant be too late to get on that line right? Really don't think this is fair because I know I would of stood out at the interest meeting if given that opportunity. Please give me some insight on what I should do from here.
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I'm not a guy. I'm not in the NPHC. But since you asked in a general forum, I'll bite. Perhaps you did stand out, but not as someone they were interested in. If the members on campus refused to discuss it with you, why would you think that anyone here can answer that question?
