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Originally Posted by DeltaGlamorous0
Plus, girls do talk. If anyone is rude in a house people will generally find out rather quickly.
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Amen to this. There's no rule that says you can't have friends in other sororities or that you can't talk to said friends during recruitment (unless you're a rho chi). If Susie Stickupherass had told me at a party, "Don't invite me back, I don't like AEPhi, you're all a bunch of JAPs and I'm not even Jewish", I would have tried my best to be polite to her in the moment, but I wouldn't have had any qualms about telling my friends in other sororities that Susie Stickupherass had made such a rude comment. (Not to mention that I wouldn't classify anyone who was active at the same time I was as a JAP, and there are plenty of non-Jewish actives, both back in my day and today.)
A PNM is a guest in the chapter's home and should behave accordingly. Be rude - pay the price.
