[*winter*]

OP, I hope you come back. We want what is best for you.

I worked in a domestic violence shelter. Everyone here is right in the money. If you give in and quit the sorority tomorrow (DONT!)- it will be something else. He will ultimately ruin your college experience and possibly cause you to drop out of college altogether. I've seen it happen. I was just discussing this with my niece tonight, because her BF (a great kid) isn't going to college and I was concerned he would do this sort of thing with her. But, fortunately, he isn't. Point: not all guys are like this. Have fun. Move on.