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I think youre reading too much into things. The chapters at SEC schools are soooo big that honestly, no matter where you get a bid there will be a group of girls who you will click with and you will become friends with. Regardless of if your bid comes from a top, bottom, middle, random house you knew nothing about, or a house where you knew several of the actives.
Don't worry about asking questions to determine reputation...in fact I suggest not doing that. Focus more on your conversation flowing naturally and making a good first impression rather than trying to read into what the girls are wearing, and what kinds of pictures are hanging on the walls, and what Random Active Betty said about a social they had. Just talk the girls naturally and enjoy the conversations and THEN decide if you liked that party/house.
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