I have only written 3 no-recs in all the dozens I have written over the years. One smuggled ivory into the country on a trip I was with, one physically attacked a camp director where I was nurse, and one took a selfie of herself urinating on our main street and left it on Facebook for months. I have never felt guilty for any of the 3.
One girl dropped out of sight and the other 2 showed their true colors soon after matriculating at their colleges. You do what you have to if you know for sure about a threat to your sorority because Greek headquarters and colleges are removing chapters left and right for risk management violations.
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