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Old 10-14-2009, 11:29 AM
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Originally Posted by LaneSig View Post
Brothers smoking reefer? Just say, "No, it's not my thing" without making a big deal out of it. I wasn't a big drinker in college (2 drinks at the most). I didn't act judgemental or anything with the guys who got sh**faced at parties (or on a Tuesday), I just did my thing. A couple of years after graduation, one of the members told me how he respected that I just quietly did my thing and didn't call them out for doing theirs.
yup. This is the big difference between college and high school. College students (who are usually poor) have learned to embrace the "you don't? Cool, more for me" angle. If you don't sit there and tch tch at them, no one will care. (As long as you don't have a video camera, lol)
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