The reality is we ARE our letters to those around campus, so you can't just decide to divest yourself from the chapter for an evening (or noon or Saturday in front of cartoons) but nobody expects every member to be a saint 24/7 either. Balance, discretion, turning up the cool, those are all things that need to be included in a complete and varied life that might include a little back room antics every once in a while.
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"Traveling - It leaves you speechless, then turns you into a storyteller. ~ Ibn Battuta
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