All you can do is encourage her to make the most of the invites that she did get. If she is truly shy, she simply may have been unremembered, not disliked and the chapters have to cut a certain number of women. If she does end up cut from all the groups, there are so many campus activities that she can get involved with that she should have no trouble finding a niche somewhere on campus. Being Greek is not the be all end all of college life. We do not succeed at everything we try to do and that's an important lesson to learn in life. Everybody learns it at some point, even though it is painful.
Dee
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