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Originally Posted by angels&angles
Why paint it as them rejecting you rather than a reasoned decision you made on your own?
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Simple.
If you paint it as being rejected, then you can blame the system and talk about how "tough it is."
It's alot easier for a PNM to say "recruitment at ___ sucks, it's all about who you know. I heard that 800 girls were cut this year after first rounds! It was sooo brutal!" than it is to admit to dropping out of the process and not giving it a chance.
There are quite a few times I've seen a post saying "I went bidless!" only to have the PNM come back (after someone asks) and say "Well I did get one invite to XYZ but I didn't see myself there."
PNMs are certainly allowed to accept/decline any invites they get, or drop out of recruitment. However, I feel like if you do, you forfeit the right to complain about how the system works.
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Last edited by KSUViolet06; 09-05-2009 at 07:31 PM.
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