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Old 08-19-2005, 09:49 PM
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Originally posted by adpiucf
Good posts. What are some things TO SAY?
"I'm sorry."

Then, be willing to LISTEN as long as she needs to talk or vent or cry or whatever. Check up on her the next day or so as appropriate, just in case she needs a friendly face. Say hi to her when you see her on campus.

Basically, treat her exactly as you'd want to be treated if YOU were the confused/lonely/scared/heartbroken/embarrassed/angry/etc (add or delete adjectives as appropriate) PNM yourself.
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