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Originally posted by KDMater
So the question is: how can you make a decision on whether you want to go back to a sorority when you haven't really had a chance to get to know them - even a little bit? Do you just go on gut feelings? If you spend time looking around the room to try and get a "sense" of other members, do you risk irritating the one girl who's try to get to know you?
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If she's able to go back to every sorority that kept her, then she should. If she needs to drop a few organizations, then she should go back to the ones that she felt most comfortable with and the best connection to.
Let's say she went to 16 orgs for round 1, and got kept by 10, and can only keep 8 for round 2. She should keep the 8 that she feels best about. If she had great feelings about 4, and isn't sure about 6, then she should do her best to see which she's most interested it.
It's good to plan ahead, but it'll be easier to make the decision once she knows which/how many chapters she's been asked back to.