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I'm so sorry that you feel like something's missing and that all of this is still bothering you years later. There is probably absolutely no explanation for why you were released. It's all statistics...numbers generated by computers. Maybe it was a mistake or glitch....I've seen several posts on here where bid match lists have been wrong and girls have gotten bids to the wrong house. It happens. I'm not sure what sororities you have friends in, but if you truly regret not joining a chapter, there is always alumnae initiation. Not all groups have it. Mine does and some of the strongest sorority women I know were initiated as alumnae....usually because their mom, daughter, cousin, best friend, etc...is a member and they want to experience it. Alumnae involvement is very different than collegiate involvement....more lunches, less songs, no recruitment really. I am currently President of my local alumnae chapter and I love it. Anyway, it might be an option for you.